Sometimes we become too involved in looking

[ZA Dater]

Lets be honest here, those of us single, especially those of us perpetually single tend to get into this zone of looking and maybe getting really worried when we hit 30 and haven't had a gf.

 

 

Perhaps this is the definition getting too "involved".

 

 

A few weeks ago I really felt at a level of despair, no prospects, many regrets, many situations I by design messed up, countless rejections. It was indeed a very lonely place to be.

 

 

Read a few thread here, well ok more than a few and took some solace from them.

 

 

Decided as I have few friends and nobody I really feel comfortable talking to, the solution was a blog.

 

 

Surprised how much better I felt putting these experiences down on virtual paper, the mostly bad and the rare fantastic moment.

 

 

My point here is forums like this have a place, its also good if you have someone to talk to about dating because sometimes we become so focussed on doing something or finding something that we don't step back and look at everything as whole.

 

 

As for my prospects dating wise, well there aren't really at the moment, OLD hasn't dished up anything palatable and my social circle is tiny but to some extent the good experiences and good memories keep me in a sort of happy medium.

 

 

Of course reading here gives perspective.