mixwell Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 I met this girl at the bar thursday night and we talked for a little bit.. She said i was cute and she gave me her number. I called her yesterday and she was going to work so she said i will call you tomorrow (today). She hasn't called though and i was thinking about calling her to see if she wanted to hang out tonight. Does it seem needy because I had just phoned her yesterday ? What would you suggest ?? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Jagang Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 You shouldn't have allowed her to take control and be the one to call you. So, if she doesn't call, I would wait about a week, and call her back and the conversation should go something like this: You: Hey, you never called me. Her: Oh I'm sorry (some excuse). You: I don't like it when women are flaky, but I'll let you make it up to me by buying me dinner Her: pause..... umm yeah, where do you want to go? (might not say this, but improvise with a cocky+ funny comment if she shoots back a negative comment toward you) You: Meet me at (such and such) at (this time) and don't be late. Make sure you maintain control in the relationship, it's soooo much easier that way. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted April 20, 2005 Share Posted April 20, 2005 Assuming she has your phone number, I'd wait at least a week to call her back - it'll make her think. If a week goes by and you don't hear anything, give her another call and just ask her out. If she gets evasive, move on - her interest was only temporary. Link to post Share on other sites
purple21 Posted April 20, 2005 Share Posted April 20, 2005 Blah - I hate when people don't call (but I think we are all guilty of that at some point) - especially when they seem interested - but again as the others said - wait and see if she calls you back - and maybe try again after awhile and see how she responds, then move on. She might have some crap going on this week or maybe she changed her mind - it's kinda soon hard to say. Link to post Share on other sites
chancecookie Posted April 20, 2005 Share Posted April 20, 2005 Awww c'mon guys. We only let you think you have the upper hand. Anyway, Unless you are in high school - phone games are silly. There is no voodoo equation to get someone to like you by NOT calling. She may have an actual life and may have had soemthing come up. It's ok to call - you'll know when she doesn't want you to. Link to post Share on other sites
macoxp Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 If you care enough to wonder when to call then you have already lost. Get a life and stop thinking about when you should call people. Having an interesting life is one of the sexist things and guy can do. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Originally posted by macoxp If you care enough to wonder when to call then you have already lost. Get a life and stop thinking about when you should call people. Having an interesting life is one of the sexist things and guy can do. Give me a break He likes her and wants her to call. He should wait a week but if he calls again and she's still flaky, then I agree, move on. It's a ridiculous notion you shouldn't call or make a move to prove have a life. You give a little, she gives a little. It shouldn't be one-sided. Link to post Share on other sites
macoxp Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Give me a break He likes her and wants her to call. He should wait a week but if he calls again and she's still flaky, then I agree, move on. It's a ridiculous notion you shouldn't call or make a move to prove have a life. You give a little, she gives a little. It shouldn't be one-sided. I did not say "not to call" I said that it should not be something that consumes your life and becomes all you can think about. Link to post Share on other sites
saywhat Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 hey have you ever watched the movie "SWINGERS"....i've been reading some of your posts and your really should. Link to post Share on other sites
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