WifeDesperate Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Hello everyone. I am 25 years old and I think my husband is/would cheat on me. Here is the thing: I was suspecting that he is flirting with other girls online, so I have created a new account on skype and added him. I talked with him and pretended to be someone else. Now I asked him if he wants to meet me and he said he didn't believe I was a girl, so I send him a random picture of a girl without face obviously and told him that was me. He said he wanted to see a picture with his Skype name on it, he said I should write it on my skin so he knows I'm real. I really want to know how far he would go, he already send me pictures of him in his underpants. Now I have the problem that I can't really make a picture of myself and send it to him because I don't really look as skinny as the girl on the picture I gave him. I know this is a really strange request and I totally get if no one is willing to do it, but if there is anyone who wants to help me and is willing to make a picture of herself (no nude, no face) or maybe knows someone who would do that I would really appreciate it. It just has to be a woman around 20s and rather skinny..., I guess it doesn't even need to be a woman around 20s as long as it's not seeable. Like I said, I don't want any sexual pictures, just normal with his Skype name on it. I know it's crazy, but I don't want to leave him because he is chatting with other girls. I want to see if he would actually meet another girl and for that I need help. If someone is willing to do it just send me a private message and I'll tell you what to do. Girls, I would be forever thankful! Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Why don't you get an attorney instead? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
applej4 Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 What you’re asking others to “help” you do is silly and makes no sense. It’s also possible that you are not a wife, but someone trying to get pics of women for some nefarious reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WifeDesperate Posted April 15, 2015 Author Share Posted April 15, 2015 What you’re asking others to “help” you do is silly and makes no sense. It’s also possible that you are not a wife, but someone trying to get pics of women for some nefarious reason. How is that? I don't ask for nudes or anything sexual, no faces and obviously no names. I see how it's a ridicilous, but I don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie1231 Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 I'm really sorry for what you're going through, but I think there are other ways to handle it. Like hiring a private investigator to do this for you or something. The idea of writing a man's name on my body, taking a picture and then sending it to a stranger it really creepy. It makes me just imagine some scary guy who lives in his mom's basement and collects pics of women with his name written on their bodies. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
applej4 Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 but I don't know what to do. Suggestion: get a life and stop insulting people's intelligence. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WifeDesperate Posted April 15, 2015 Author Share Posted April 15, 2015 I don't have the money for private investigstors. It doesn't even have to be a real photo. If you know someone who can photomontage it I would prefer that even. And I guess just holding a card with the name would be enough. I don't know... but I understand you guys. I would probably react the same. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 You already know that he is talking to other women; why do you need to take it further to see how far he will go? He is disrespecting you and your marriage but it seems like you (both) aren't mature enough for an honest relationship. Why do you want to stay with someone like that? You shouldn't have to play more games with additional pix? Link to post Share on other sites
vanhalenfan Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 He's done enough already to show his disrespect towards you and the marriage; you don't need further evidence. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 You should have got a friend he has never met or a friend of a friend try set him up like this. I'm surprised he did not ask to use cam on skype. Open up a profile on some amateur/free porn site and contact some of the thin women on there for what you want. I'm sure it will grease the wheels if you offer to pay something into their paypal account. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Look, you don't need to play stupid games. You already have all the information you need. Married men do not add random women that they don't know onto their Skype. Married men do not ask said random women for pictures. Married men do not ask for pics with things written on their skin. Married men do not need "proof" that random woman is who she says she is. Married men do not say they will meet up with random women even if they can prove they are who they say they are. This is all the information you need. Your husband is not acting like a married man. He is acting like a single man on the pull. He has no respect for you or your marriage. Now what are you going to do about that??? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author WifeDesperate Posted April 16, 2015 Author Share Posted April 16, 2015 Okay, I didn't want to say it, but I want revenge. If he really is willing to meet another girl and have sex with her I will do my best so everyone knows about what an ******* he is. He still told me today that he loves me. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 The best revenge you can have is to live a full and happy life... without him. If you want further revenge then as they say, you better dig 2 graves... Link to post Share on other sites
Friskyone4u Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Look, you don't need to play stupid games. You already have all the information you need. Married men do not add random women that they don't know onto their Skype. Married men do not ask said random women for pictures. Married men do not ask for pics with things written on their skin. Married men do not need "proof" that random woman is who she says she is. Married men do not say they will meet up with random women even if they can prove they are who they say they are. This is all the information you need. Your husband is not acting like a married man. He is acting like a single man on the pull. He has no respect for you or your marriage. Peg Nose just sent this to you. Read it again!!!! Stop the silly business about sending him anything. You already know just from his responses that he would meet another girl. If you really want to, just confront him with his responses to you so far. I'd love to hear him explain that one but it would be too pathetic to listen to. Go online and google "Voice Activated Recorder". For a small amount of money you can stick the thing in his car and hear who he is talking to and what he is up to. but you have enough to lower the boom right now. And forget about FB or wherever you want to embarass him. Fix the problem. Its more important. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I really want to know how far he would go, he already send me pictures of him in his underpants. Does it matter? Or does he usually send pics of him, in his underpants to random people? If he does, then you may have another problem. You are deluding yourself, if you think you need MORE proof here, but the VAR in the car idea is good and will trap him eventually, if he is seeing other people. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 The more rationally you handle this the better the settlement you will receive in divorce court. Once the divorce is final, then get your revenge or what have you. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Divorce and live on happily ever after without him. That's the best revenge there is. An aquaintances' ex husband is still begging her to come back to him 6 years after they divorced because he was cheating, but she only laughs wodnering how he ever got the nerve to beg in the first place after what he did. Do you have children with him? If not, move out of the house while he's at work to family or generous friends and get the divorce proceedings started. Link to post Share on other sites
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