Yb.jr Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 About a couple of weeks ago my cousin asked me to take her friend to prom if she doesn't decide to take her date she had now and said I okay I don't mind but send me a picture of her. She sends me a picture of her and she is really cute. So I'm thinking to myself I wouldn't mind getting to know her so little do I know she felt the same way about me. So a few weeks go by without her hitting me up so I decide to text her. So we start talking just to get to know each other and things were so perfectly right off. We connected on all basis. We both wanted the same things out of whoever we were dating. So we decide to go on a date and it was great, we knew we were feeling each other and we ended that night on with a kiss. A day goes by and I texted her no reply and I have a bad habit of sending more then one text when I get no reply. She got really annoyed by that, and I knew I shouldn't have done that. So lately she has not been texting me or calling me and deleted all the post she put about me on Twitter and I know it's because I came on to strongly. She finally texted me and I asked her if she still wanted me to take her to prom and she said of course she does. So I feel that was a good sign but still no text or nothing from her. I don't know if it's me looking in to things or its bad. I'm scared that if u give her space she will just go off and talk to another guy. I need some advice on what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 You know what if she does go off with some other guy thats OK. Because it means she is not for you. Stop sending texts. She will be your date for Prom so leave it at that. The only contact you now need is to organize picking her up and dropping her off (or meeting her there) i.e. time place etc. Thats it. No more. Get involved more with your friends, keep active and go out with them. I hate to say it but they are far more likely to still be around later in life than this girl... Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Be careful here, OP. I have a feeling you're attaching more romantic significance to this prom date than she is now. She might just not want to go by herself. Even if she does start talking to another guy, that's her prerogative and means you weren't a match together. How many texts did you send her, and what did you say? Link to post Share on other sites
fred123 Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 She could go to the prom with with you just as friends and get off with another guy there. How would you feel? Expect the unexpected Link to post Share on other sites
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