browneyes37 Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Need some advice!! I'll try and make this as short as I can I worked for a trucking company and worked with some guys that I became good friends with one is my best friend and the other I'll always had an interst in but I never tried anything because at the time he had a girlfriend. I left the company but was still friends with both of them. I moved out of state came back 1year later I went to see one of the guys but both were there working we stared talking about going out that weekend The one guy that I'll liked but left alone because he has a girlfriend had asked me for my number so I gave it to him. We started seeing each other but he was married and I knew that he was not happy they fight all the time from what he says he has been talking about divorce after 7months of seeing him and him talking about getting a divorce and settling child support payments he has now decided that he wants to try and work things out with his wife. Iknow both of them and he has never cheated on her until me and she has cheated on him for the last year.he wants to stay married to here for money reasons. I have told him he needs to do what's best for him. the last time I talked to him he said that It was my decsion on if i still want to see him. any one have any advice. Iwant to still talk to him but don't want to see him. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Originally posted by browneyes37 Need some advice!! I'll try and make this as short as I can I worked for a trucking company and worked with some guys that I became good friends with one is my best friend and the other I'll always had an interst in but I never tried anything because at the time he had a girlfriend. I left the company but was still friends with both of them. I moved out of state came back 1year later I went to see one of the guys but both were there working we stared talking about going out that weekend The one guy that I'll liked but left alone because he has a girlfriend had asked me for my number so I gave it to him. We started seeing each other but he was married and I knew that he was not happy they fight all the time from what he says he has been talking about divorce after 7months of seeing him and him talking about getting a divorce and settling child support payments he has now decided that he wants to try and work things out with his wife. Iknow both of them and he has never cheated on her until me and she has cheated on him for the last year.he wants to stay married to here for money reasons. I have told him he needs to do what's best for him. the last time I talked to him he said that It was my decsion on if i still want to see him. any one have any advice. Iwant to still talk to him but don't want to see him. I wouldn't even still talk to him. If he was THAT unhappy.. he wouldn't have tried to work it out and decided to stay with her. How long've they been married? Do they have kids? If you keep talking to him.. it'll end up with you guys wanting to see each other again. No good will come of it. Just walk away.. Link to post Share on other sites
GirlDown Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Originally posted by erika2610 I wouldn't even still talk to him. If he was THAT unhappy.. he wouldn't have tried to work it out and decided to stay with her. How long've they been married? Do they have kids? If you keep talking to him.. it'll end up with you guys wanting to see each other again. No good will come of it. Just walk away.. at the risk of sounding harsh, i am going to keep this short and just say...yeah, what erika said. Link to post Share on other sites
newbee Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 only continue to see him if you are completely honest with yourself about what it is, and what it isnt. you are being used for sex on this side of his marriage, you are a band aid for his marriage, they probably have a better marriage with you than they have had for ages, the more you sleep with him, the less he will think of you and the more he will think of her, if you have a problem he is not supportive with you over and you complain, he will look at you in disgust that you even think you have a right when his poor wife is being cheated on, he may not show all of these things, but it is how it is. so it IS up to you, but it is not as attractive option as he may make it seem. Link to post Share on other sites
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