Is this a good opportunity to seize or not?

[Grilled_Salmon]

I feel super-conflicted with this whole situation. I'll cut the long background short by linking my other thread about this; http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/523646-i-like-girl-but-am-feeling-conflicted-now

 

The girl I like is attending an even at a museum this Thursday, and I'm really divided whether if I should act to this or simply leave it out.

 

I feel like I really have to but am extremely hesitant by the fact that I had been blatantly ignoring her like as if she never existed for 2 months whenever we saw each other. Because of this, I feel like it would be awfully inappropriate to even ask her to begin with.

 

YET....

 

At the same time I feel like this would be a good chance to 'bounce' back to at least start talking to her again.

 

Or maybe rather ask if I could come along (I highly doubt she's going alone) than asking out?

 

Or alternatively, pretend I didn't know she's going, bring my friends along and then search for her - and then 'accidentally' bump into one another?

 

I'm really torn what to do and what would be the best option to take (if I'm being incoherent here, then this is partly due that I wrote this in a hurry at an awfully late night).