Author Talvez Posted April 30, 2015 Author Share Posted April 30, 2015 I'm really confused. I just found out that the baby was actually born yesterday. She just keeps playing with my mind. The baby is real!!!! I want to know if he's mine. I'm not sure what kind of games she keeps playing, but i'm definitely going to take legal action instead of personally confronting her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted May 5, 2015 Share Posted May 5, 2015 I'm really confused. I just found out that the baby was actually born yesterday. She just keeps playing with my mind. The baby is real!!!! I want to know if he's mine. I'm not sure what kind of games she keeps playing, but i'm definitely going to take legal action instead of personally confronting her. Based on the dates if this baby was born at 40weeks gestation, date of conception would have been August 6th~ which doesn't fit you date of seperation in July! So unless the baby was fairly overdue, it can't have been concieved before you split up with her. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted May 11, 2015 Share Posted May 11, 2015 I'm really confused. I just found out that the baby was actually born yesterday. She just keeps playing with my mind. The baby is real!!!! I want to know if he's mine. I'm not sure what kind of games she keeps playing, but i'm definitely going to take legal action instead of personally confronting her. Yes, since she is playing games with you, don't interact with her at all anymore. Get legal advice to find out what you have to do to get a paternity test done. You definitely want to know if the baby is yours or not because depending on where you live the mother could pop back up at anytime and sue you for child support and back child support. I live in Canada and about 15yrs ago the government started cracking down really hard on fathers who didn't make their child support payments. Before that child support was a joke as many fathers were not paying and nothing was being done to enforce payment. Then it swung to the other extreme and I knew a guy who found out that he had a 9yr old daughter when the mom came after him for child support. He had had a short fling with her and then they parted ways and he never knew she had a baby. So it was proven that he was the father and he was ordered to pay child support but he was also ordered to pay 9yrs of back support. The judge did not care that the guy had no prior knowledge of the child even existing. So just like that the guy was buried in debt overnight. Find out if the baby is yours. Link to post Share on other sites
MM1234 Posted May 28, 2015 Share Posted May 28, 2015 I'm really confused. I just found out that the baby was actually born yesterday. She just keeps playing with my mind. The baby is real!!!! I want to know if he's mine. I'm not sure what kind of games she keeps playing, but i'm definitely going to take legal action instead of personally confronting her. Oh she is playing some serious games! Go see a lawyer ASAP. Most lawyers do a free consultation, go see several lawyers. Based on the dates if this baby was born at 40weeks gestation, date of conception would have been August 6th~ which doesn't fit you date of seperation in July! So unless the baby was fairly overdue, it can't have been concieved before you split up with her. Oooohh, that timeline certainly doesn't sound right. Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Have you checked with legal aid in your area? I'm not too familiar with everything they handle so I have no idea if they handle custody issues, but it's worth a phone call at least. That would be inexpensive or possibly free. I would also google fathers rights resources. There are some organizations that may help you with the expense or even tackle some of it pro bono. Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 I'm really confused. I just found out that the baby was actually born yesterday. And you KNOW an actual baby was born to HER yesterday because...why? Because she told you? I wouldn't believe a word out of her mouth. Link to post Share on other sites
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