boyfriend's sexual appetite

[dreamy]

My boyfriend and i decided to wait until marriage to have sex. we are both in our 20's and we are both virgins. we do involve in touching each other and dry hump. my question is that sometimes he is not in the mood because he tells me he enjoys kissing me and holding me but yet he doesn't get sexual. i'm usually in the mood, sometimes he tells me that when he is not in the mood i get him into it. i've noticed he gets excited every time i touch him. he says he loves me and would like to travel around the world with me one day. woul you please tell me what's going on is it ok for him not to want to be sexual with me?. i don't think he's cheating because he's really against it.

 

I need advice because i'm not experienced.

[Tony T]

I'm not really sure that dry humping is something men get overjoyed about. The fact that he is still very affectionate towards you and is often sexual as well indicates a high level of interest. Cut the guy some slack.

 

In my opinion, I think it's a really big tease to get a worked up to his highest point of excitement and then not go for the real thing.

 

Be happy with this relationship. It sounds terrific. Get married soon and then you can go for the gold metal every day.

[Ms Understood]

You should be pleased with this boyfreind. I know girls that would kill to have a man who loved holding them at night. Sometimes that is what is missing in a relationship and although it might annoy you, you have got a good one.

 

If you feel emotionally ready to have sex, then explain it to him and maybe you will both agree not to wait. You sound like you have a stable relationship and can trust each other implicitly but touching him is, in a way, a promise for more then not giving it.

 

Sex is a wonderful thing that can happen between to people. Especially if they are in love. Just remember though, you never lose your virginity, you give it away.