My lover Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I have noticed that some women show they are interested and attracted in a guy more than others. The unspoken and often unconscious leaking of body language of attraction. You can't rely soley on one sign. What are the best signs to look for?.
DoesntGetIt Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 focusing on you and not what is going on around you lots of smiling leaning in laughter touching 1
fitnessfan365 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 (edited) The two eye tests : 1) Pupil size - This is a trade secret because a lot of people don't know about it. However, it's the body's natural response to attraction so it isn't something that can be faked. If I want to kiss a woman at the end of the night, I look into her eyes before I do. If the pupils are enlarged I go for it. Hasn't failed me yet. 2) Maintaining eye contact. If a woman is keeping eye contact with you while you talk for extended periods of time, it's because she's engaged and not distracted. When you see a woman looking around the room, checking her watch, looking down, etc it's because you're not keeping her attention. Others : 1) Playing with hair or a piece of jewelry, 2) Leaning in when you talk 3) Asking personal questions - This one can be tricky though because some women are naturally friendly. However, usually a sign of interest. Edited April 22, 2015 by fitnessfan365 1
Happy-Dayze Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 The two eye tests : 1) Pupil size - This is a trade secret because a lot of people don't know about it. However, it's the body's natural response to attraction so it isn't something that can be faked. If I want to kiss a woman at the end of the night, I look into her eyes before I do. If the pupils are enlarged I go for it. Hasn't failed me yet. Hahaha I am not saying this is wrong, but seriously there are a lot more obvious signs then trying to figure out if her pupils are dilated before you kiss her. Also pupil dilation is affected by many other things - such as the amount of light in the room. I mean if someone turns on a light are you going to let that stop you from going in for a kiss ? I think your other indicators are a little more reliable 2
Gaeta Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 If I like the man sitting in front of me I will catch myself running my hand in my hair and touching my hair in some way. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 i always get told i look like i am on drugs because i have large pupils.....i really hope guys dont take this aS body language ver batim ...because i believe pupils arent a clear indicator...heart rate ...however ...is a clear indicator.....i know when a guy i like is around because as soon as i see him my heart rate goes up....i guess that cant be read though.....my mouth goes dry i drink heaps more3 water...theres one..... i have been told that my eyes are sexy while my pupils have been large.....i think more .....stunned cat in headlights....and i dont think its clear indication of attraction at all..not for me anyway....when i go into shock...my pupils get bigger........deb
Happy-Dayze Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 If I like the man sitting in front of me I will catch myself running my hand in my hair and touching my hair in some way. This is number 1 signal for me when I am sitting across from a girl. She will sit more upright with a slight lean in to me. Then normally she will take the time to re-position her hair over one of her shoulders and start stroking it - sometimes with both hands - while we chat. Its uncanny how similar that specific body language is between different women. At first I actually found it off putting. It was a little weird how it was so similar and almost like girls treated their hair as an imaginary pet cat that was sitting on their shoulder which I had to watch them stroke as I talked to them. Once I realised it was pretty good signal I was getting laid that night I started to welcome the visits from their imaginary feline guests 1
guest569 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 One guy that i really liked I was super anxious on the first date. I guess that could be an indication, or that they are shady.
PogoStick Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I agree with being anxious. Some women revert and start acting like girls. Their mannerisms become more childish. Is she smiling, laughing, joking with you? When a woman is having a good time she usually makes it obvious. Is she sticking around for 3 hours or is she checking out after 1? At the end of the date, is she lingering? Does she go straight for her car or do you stand around chatting another 10 minutes outside her door? If she's lingering then she's probably waiting to see if you'll kiss. As for pupil size Large pupils could just be from low light conditions. But yes, it could be a sign of excitement. This causes epinephrine to stimulate the sympathetic nervous system. This also explains the increased heart rate. We would also expect a rise in blood pressure, so bring a pressure cuff so you can check her during the date. In addition, urine production is decreased, so ask her to pee into a cup and measure the amount when she goes to the bathroom.
smackie9 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I just tell him he's a such a cutie. I like getting the point across....no frickin around. 1
losangelena Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Physical touch is a big indicator for me. Am I touching you? That either means we're very close (like a close platonic male friend), or that I'm attracted to you. I don't touch people I'm not into.
Phoe Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I get giggly and smiley, I blush a lot, might be fidgety with my hands, playing with my hair or necklace.
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