Spacedout88 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 So I like this girl more and more recently. I'm some what friends with her bf but we aren't close at all. I know it's wrong to feel this way about another mans gf but I can't help it. She flirts with me and even asked one night when we were all drunk if I wanted to have sex with her ( not an invitation but just a question) we hang out without her bf even though I know her through him and she still hangs out with me knowing it makes him mad. I haven't tried any advances when we are alone because I'm not sure if that's what she wants yet because it seems like she doesn't want me to. She tells me all the time she don't think she wants to be with him anymore but she loves him and don't know what to do. I'm just confused it seems sometimes she wants me and others she don't Link to post Share on other sites
wizer Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 You wrote that you haven't made any advances on her because you're not sure that's what she wants. If you are a person of good moral character, your reasons for not making advances on her would be because she HAS A BOYFRIEND. Lots of single available women out there. Stop wasting your time chasing a woman who is taken and who is obviously playing games with you to satisfy her own ego trip, and go find one of the other ones. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 She's too weak to stand on her own. She's the kind of girl who won't leave her BF until she knows for sure there is another guy there (or she is just a tease.) Either way she is not a quality person or someone who will give you loyalty should you start a relationship with her. I'd spend less time with the group & no time alone with her. She's trouble. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
wizer Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Well, the truth is lots of people don't end a relationship until and unless they've got someone waiting in the wings. For the record I'm not one of them, I think it's cowardly and deceptive, but that's how many people are. Doesn't necessarily make them a bad person, but probably somewhat less trustworthy because lets face it, if they did it to someone else, they can do it to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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