Why do women feel they own you after you've slept together?

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Moose

When you post, you make it sound as though you're speaking for all men. I'm making it clear that you're no authority.

 

this is sorta the pot calling the kettle black, MOOSE. You do the same thing and I've called you on it 3 or 4 times and each time you backtracked and said "oh, well, most people would understand that I am not talking for everyone here"

 

one posting that comes to mind was when you wished happy easter to ALL a month ago and i pointed out that not everyone is chrisitian. Then you backtracked and answered that I and everyone else should know you were only referring to christians.

 

And you've done the same exact thing on atleast two other occasions.

[whichwayisup]

Get a room you two...HMMMM...Can I watch????

[blue16]

Although I don't agree with alphamales methods of stringing girls along, I think he has a lot of experience and useful advice/information to give.

[CurlyIam]

This isn't a thread where we are to bash Alpha or say what we think of him (even if we're free to do so, provided that the mods don't see it ).

 

this is a thread where he is talking about a specific woman and with a certain behaviour. His general views on the females... it's another story.

 

 

And yes, alpha, sometimes you are right, because what you're accusing women of is something very profoundly... womenly: yes, we do get inloved emotionally after having sex. And yes, we do want to see the SO more afterwards and we are in need of that special attention, because you did get something that very very little men did before you: you got intimate with us. And you are talking your way into women's bed. what you don't understand is that at times, you also got into her heart. And you can't just treat women's heart like dirt, A.

 

So maybe there are misunderstandings at times, maybe.... not everytime.

 

And your taking pride in dumping them for being clingy, no matter how much you're right and they're psychotic, is wrong.

 

 

I think you're the reality bite every woman needs to encounter at least once in her life. Because you teach those women a lesson and then... you have the decency to get lost pretty soon .

[alphamale]

Originally posted by laRubiaBonita

well HOPEFULLY the women on LS could tell from ALPHA's posts.........well any guy here really, that they were NOT the ultimate authority on Women.

I don't believe I am nor have I ever stated I am the ultimate authority on Women. If I was I'd be a billionaire. I just provide a differeing point of view. If I ever become an authority on anyting please shoot me.

 

Originally posted by whichwayisup

Get a room you two...HMMMM...Can I watch????

ok but u have to joiin in WWIU.

 

Originally posted by blue16

Although I don't agree with alphamales methods of stringing girls along, I think he has a lot of experience and useful advice/information to give.

I really don't string women along anymore. Its just that they find me so fascinating that they won't leave me alone!

 

Originally posted by CurlyIam

This isn't a thread where we are to bash Alpha or say what we think of him (even if we're free to do so, provided that the mods don't see it ).

Yeah, CURLYIAM, when did this thread turn into an alpha-bashing thread? All I want is intelligent discussion and give and take and entertainment. I'm not a bad guy and i really love women a lot.

[CurlyIam]

I know you do, A . sorry, it kinda turned sour for you, this thread of yours.

 

You have a way of... speaking of girls as if they were but sexual objects. That's how I perceive it at times.

 

 

It's very hard to be objective when opinions on such a sensitive matter differ so much, that's all.

 

I for one don't do it with the precise purpose of getting back at you. Maybe you should start another thread and rephrase your questions, 'cause this one seemes doomed.

[Moose]

Really Alpha, didn't mean to turn this into a roast.......and no......I really don't want to share a room with ya!

[whichwayisup]

ok but u have to joiin in WWIU.

 

 

If I ever become an authority on anyting please shoot me.

 

Shoot or splooge?

[tiki]

Alpha, are you even still talking to this good-for-nothing hO~baG?

 

 

...or is errbody fightin for nothin?

[whichwayisup]

For some reason mud wrestling has popped into my head.

 

Moosey, Alpha? Wanna go play in the mud?? Forget the room, I'd pay to see you two in a mud match!

[CurlyIam]

Bring the popcorn, dear, this is far better than tv!

[Moose]

Originally posted by whichwayisup

For some reason mud wrestling has popped into my head.

 

Moosey, Alpha? Wanna go play in the mud?? Forget the room, I'd pay to see you two in a mud match!

Oh gawd.......I'm having some very bad images pop into my head.....please, make it stop!!!!

[whichwayisup]

 

As long as NEITHER of you are wearing SPEEDOS's ... It's OK.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by tiki

Alpha, are you even still talking to this good-for-nothing hO~baG?

 

...or is errbody fightin for nothin?

 

yeah, i just got off the phone with her. we are getting togehter sat nite.

[tiki]

Alpha, I hope this hooch dumps you after stirring up this much trouble here.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by whichwayisup

Moosey, Alpha? Wanna go play in the mud?? Forget the room, I'd pay to see you two in a mud match!

eat shyt WWIU

[whichwayisup]

we are getting togehter sat nite.

 

One last f**k before the breakup? Or are you going to give her more time to see where this could head? (GO, I mean, not head head...Though I'm sure you'll be gettin' that anyway! )

[whichwayisup]

eat shyt WWIU

 

No thanks. Not into that sort of thing eh? But I hear there's an interesting thread about eating it on LS!

[CurlyIam]

Someone's jealous???

 

Hey, some people don't even have that! Look at me, I'm drooling all over the screen at the thought of a hot date! Man, all this thing about being single is getting to me!

[tiki]

it's

 

not

 

worth

 

it

 

 

[laRubiaBonita]

Back to the original question: Why do women feel they own you after you've slept together?

 

the simplest answer i can give is the 'Tang ain't free.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by CurlyIam

Hey, some people don't even have that! Look at me, I'm drooling all over the screen at the thought of a hot date! Man, all this thing about being single is getting to me!

 

CURLYIAM, baby, u can come to Detroit anytime and we can hook up....

[CurlyIam]

Darn, I've just been to Washingon last week!

 

[goodnbad]

Originally posted by alphamale

Most men will have sex at the drop of a hat cause we are weak this way. If she is looking for a relationship then she should not have given up the nookie so quick. It also makes me respect her less.

 

The last woman I dated did not give up the nookie until we had been dating for almost 2 months and I liked that although I would have banged her before that had she given me the chance.

 

 

A man will have sex whenever he can. It is the mans job to try to get nookie as soon as possible and the womans job to make him hold off until she is ready.

 

 

 

 

An' there ya have it! At least you are being honest, Alpha. IMO, a lot of guys think that but wouldn't dare say it out loud.

 

See, speaking as a woman here, if I wanted a commited relationship, I wouldn't give it out so quickly either. I would want the guy to respect me. However, I see nothing wrong with a woman wanting to have casual sex. I think there are a lot more women out there that would, but don't because of the stereotype they would fall under if they did. I don't think that is fair either, but there it is.

 

If I were looking for a one-night or two-nighter, nope, I wouldn't expect a guy to be getting down on one knee with ring in hand. The way I see it is that, if he would sleep with me that quick, he would sleep with you too. And although that might be alright for a quickie boink, I wouldn't consider him as 'mate' material. But some would. So there goes the theory of ALL women wanting a deep romance after sex. Merely another stereotype.

 

What puzzles me is that this chick is sleeping with Alpha on the second date and not using protection aside from the Pill (well, one would think she would want to use a condom, since she doesn't know his background). Being on the pill is just plain risky, from an STD standpoint. Either she is naive or just plain foolish....or maybe even looking to get pregnant.

 

Alpha, you are seeing her again to do ---? Keep the love alive? Tell her it's over? Or kinda just drag it along to see where it goes? Oh, we are all getting way too involved in this, it's none of our business really, is it?

 

I hope you might the right decision, the one that makes you happiest.

 

Good luck.

 

goodnbad

[curiousnycgirl]

alpha -

 

Back to your initial question, I don't know why THIS woman suddenly she feels she owns you just because you had sex with her - but I can assure you that ALL women do NOT feel that way.

 

Back to your response to me - I am wounded. I will never understand why women who have sex early in a relationship are less deserving of respect. The reality is all relationships start out casual, so at the beginning it is causal sex!n If something deeper grows then it is all good. In order to get in my pants, you must stimulate my mind first. I guess you are implying that I should just have casual partners on the side while I am determining if I want a relationship with someone - but frankly I just don't sleep around.

 

I'm done with this thread.