Pretywoman Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Seriously I am really curious. I am in my 40s and I begin to realize that there are plenty of young men prefer older women. I would like to hear your opinions and inputs.. Thanks love...
fitnessfan365 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 (edited) I always dated older women up until a few years ago. Anywhere from late 30's through out the 40's, I even dated a 50 year old woman when I was 30. These weren't "cougars" either. They were older women that preferred to stay in their age bracket that made exceptions for me. At first they were skeptical. But once they saw how mature I was for my age, and that I had the intelligence, communication skills, and seduction skills, they all wound up with me. Huge turn on for two reasons. One, it was very flattering. Two, hearing a woman say that she shouldn't be doing this right before she gives herself to you, is beyond hot. - Older women are way more direct. - Older women tend to communicate much better - Older women tend to be much better at flirting and banter - Older women have interests that match up with mine (I swear I was born in the wrong decade) - Older women have higher sex drives that match my libido. Plus a lot come out of boring marriages and REALLY like virile dominant men. But as much as I loved the fine wine, there were so many insecurities involved on their part. Constantly questioning my attraction, if I'd still be attracted eventually, if they were denying me children, etc.. Lots of commitment phobia too. Edited April 24, 2015 by fitnessfan365
lgspot Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Pretty woman---You're at a good age. 40's are an attractive time for a woman. When I was younger, I dated and loved a couple of older women. Found them to be appreciative, experienced, and knew what they wanted (all desirable traits). AND their sex drives were off the charts!!!
Author Pretywoman Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 IG.. Thank you and I have come to realize that actually. I wasn't keen on younger men obviously but it seems swarm directing to me..lol.. I dont deny sex is top list, as much as younger man wants experienced older woman to be good in bed, older woman would as much desire that too..
Author Pretywoman Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 f365.. do you think financial securities is another reason to those you have mentioned? Does being young mean men would act like a woman, like seeking attention, being sensitive, hard to get, etc etc etc..
lgspot Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 IG.. Thank you and I have come to realize that actually. I wasn't keen on younger men obviously but it seems swarm directing to me..lol.. I dont deny sex is top list, as much as younger man wants experienced older woman to be good in bed, older woman would as much desire that too.. Often younger men are teachable. You can guide them.... Us old farts are too set in our ways. lol Although I think I'm entering my second childhood. Grab a couple of those young ones and take them for a test drive. Have a little fun! 2
Diezel Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Once I hit my mid-thirties, it was either late 20's or early 40's women, simply because they weren't women in their mid/late 30's trying desperately to start a family in a rushed environment. A woman at 28 or 42 trumps most women I've dated that were 34. 1
Jessie1231 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Seriously I am really curious. I am in my 40s and I begin to realize that there are plenty of young men prefer older women. I would like to hear your opinions and inputs.. Thanks love... I've noticed this too! I'm 38 and when I was doing online dating I would hear from so many guys that seemed way too young for me. It made me uncomfortable because I couldn't imagine they would actually want to date an older woman so I always kind of ignored it. And then there have been a few times in bars and such when a much younger guy flirts, and I would always tell myself he must have had too much to drink and kind of laugh it off. Reading these responses makes me reconsider my opinion on that.
Redhead14 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Seriously I am really curious. I am in my 40s and I begin to realize that there are plenty of young men prefer older women. I would like to hear your opinions and inputs.. Thanks love... Generally, older women are more confident and secure in themselves. She doesn't need a man, she wants one. They aren't whiney or needy. They are experienced in life and have interesting things to say and opinions to give. There are things the man can learn from her and make him a better man. She knows what she does and doesn't want. They are calmer, less frenzied usually because they know how to have balance in their lives. She doesn't move in herds. And, when she is out with you at an event, she isn't all over you. She can carry on a conversation with new people. And best of all, they make good lovers 1
Author Pretywoman Posted April 25, 2015 Author Posted April 25, 2015 thats cool jessie.. and good luck ya..
h0000 Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Younger guys date old women for experience. they will most likely not marry them though
Krieger Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 I much rather go the Paul walker way and date young. If I date a girl 10 years younger than she just be one opinion away from being replaced. LOL In all serious I have to date younger there are no single woman my age that are kid less . I have better odds winning the mega millions and getting stuck by lighting and find a unicorn all in the someday. It seems like it is allmos impossible to find a woman with no kids because u want my own with her.
elaine567 Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 If I date a girl 10 years younger than she just be one opinion away from being replaced. LOL With an attitude like, that then I guess you will be the one that is quickly replaced. LOL!
Krieger Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 With an attitude like, that then I guess you will be the one that is quickly replaced. LOL! It was a joke but do not date woman my own age or older for that matter.
elaine567 Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Something to think about. Marrying a younger man increases a woman's mortality rate | Science | The Guardian
d0nnivain Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 My husband told me he liked older women because we don't play games & are more straightforward. 1
Diezel Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Something to think about. Marrying a younger man increases a woman's mortality rate | Science | The Guardian Not even going to read the article. Gonna guess it's due to self-inflicted stress.
carhill Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Been a long while but my remembrance was a combination of a self-assured vulnerability which came with age and life experience combined with unambiguity regarding sex and love and, well, she could kiss like the dickens and smelled really good.
Vercetti Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Let me ask you a question OP, you want to be around a gaggle of twenty something GIRLS? I know who I am and what I want. Not going to suffer dramatic shifts in personality, desires, lifestyle, or friends. While there might be exceptions I do not see the same with those younger then I or majority of peers. Hell, peers acted obtuse as can imagine...While spent a decade saving / investing / pursuing reaching surpassing goals.....they were mostly club hopping / going on trips / dealing with roommates / living hand to mouth. That said, why would any remotly estibilished man wish to deal with that crap? I don't care about your major / BFFS / social networking / smart phone / who is playing in whatever dive / what you saw on TV / what tattoo have or want to get / what piercings have or want / whatever pop culture drivil spew out. If I'm redundant here, just doing my best to help you get perspective on your question.
Vercetti Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Something to think about. Marrying a younger man increases a woman's mortality rate | Science | The Guardian Let me counter it without reading it. I was under the impression sex reduced stress and cum was better then any product to rejuvenate skin on top of being the most consolidated form of nutrients on earth one could injest. Slow death by sex, anyone want to experiment for science? It's in my best interests to keep the test subject alive long as possiable
Woggle Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 I like be with an equal who I can deal with on my level and not an overgrown girl who needs to be disciplined. I can't get that with younger women for the most part.
Emilia Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Mostly better sex from experienced women. If the age gap is too big (5+ years), that would be my first guess by a mile.
Vercetti Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 My perspective better sex / more experienced is a myth. My wife did things early on that made me think she had some background...only for me to discover I was a first for a great many things. Tossed me for a loop, someone that never did things mopped the floor of all the aggressive overtly experienced women ever encountered even those that got to know supposedly exactly what I liked. Think easy / better sex is for lunkhead guys that should just be pulling girls from a collage strip. Guy that desires women to be taught by other men how to screw is pathetic in my book. Don't think that mentality is the least bit flattering for older women...unless they never grew up and boost thier ego by pulling dicks away from younger women when thier the old burnout in a circle of children acting no better. Not meaning to be devils advocate. I can be a unique snowflake and have no issue throwing majority of guys under bus for being suckers. Lots of guys like strippers and porn stars. Ogga Booga, girl know how bang guy so girl bang me.
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