Hav Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 (edited) I've known her for 4 years of my life online, we've been dating for about 3 1/2 of that time, on and off. We've had our problems in the past but those are behind us, and are not an issue now. She visited me in December, and we both agreed it was probably the best time of our life, and the months after that were good, even kind of saddening that we weren't with each other anymore. She'd tell me she missed me when I went to sleep, romantic stuff like that, but after a while, she started getting angry at a lot of the things I did, and defensive about small things. I'm not good with expressing myself over text, or even a video call, so part of her anger is probably my fault, at miscommunication, but she says i'm the only one who makes her mad. Now, she's saying she still loves me, and i'm her best friend, but she just wants to be friends, her mind is set, and there is no convincing her on a second chance, she just says we're not compatible, even if I didn't piss her off, which I believe I wouldn't do in person, we're just not compatible, and she says she no longer has the urge to sleep with me, or anything of the such, and can't live with me. We had plans for me to visit in the summer, and she says the plans are still on, because we're friends, but she was fairly clear that I was visiting, but not for another chance. What should I do? How can I get her back? I find it torture that we're not together, maybe you could call it obsessive. Edited April 27, 2015 by Hav Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 You need to respect her wishes and leave her alone now. Don't plan for any visits; it's a bad idea when you have feelings but she doesn't. My honest guess is that she's met someone local and doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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