smackie9 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 my god you had the opportunity last time to tell her. You could have easily explained why you broke up. Anywho here is your opportunity again. This time you can grow a set and explain to her why you broke up with her last time, and you are telling her this now because you can't go forward with marriage unless this is out in the open. Let her make the choice this time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pablee Posted May 13, 2015 Author Share Posted May 13, 2015 my god you had the opportunity last time to tell her. You could have easily explained why you broke up. Anywho here is your opportunity again. This time you can grow a set and explain to her why you broke up with her last time, and you are telling her this now because you can't go forward with marriage unless this is out in the open. Let her make the choice this time. I think you haven't read my post above carefully. I have already told her EVERYTHING. She now knows why I broke up with her last time. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Sorry oops...... so you just wait for now. She is weighing how much she truly loves you, and if this indiscretion can be dismissed. Just a little processing time that is all. It happened 3 years ago, she will probably put that into account. If she does truly love you she will come back....you will see. Link to post Share on other sites
AGoodFriend Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 ...to wiggle your way out of the relationship. If you think this is eating at your conscience, imagine her feelings if you told her. She would NEVER be able to forget it. I've been on both sides of cheating. No matter how much you forgive, you can never forget. You made a mistake, and you have owned it. However, you have destroyed a relationship. She will not be able to stay with you. Every time she looks at you, she will see you in a different way, rolling around with an unnamed stranger, doing things that are normally out-of-character in your relationship. Even if you guys take a break and she goes out and has some fun, and gets back together with you, the second honeymoon period will end. And not only will she have to deal with your past, you will now have to deal with the fact that she has been out there, too, possibly with lovers better than you. Probably best to move on, for both of you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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