Jump to content

NC from the Dumpers perspective


simon_uk

Recommended Posts

When you are dumped and the person doing the dumping says I want you to be in my life all the time, you are the best friend I ever head. Do they actually mean it? I know its a tired old cliche and an easy let down etc but do they ever mean it? I am getting quite angry now because 1. I never expected us to split up, we were talking about a break and now it has come to a full blown break up and 2. If I really am her best friend (she doesnt have many) then how come she is doing NC? How come after 4 weeks she has never contacted me just to say, "hey how you doing?, hope you are coping" or sorry or anything? Why does it feel like we are complete strangers. Is it a pride thing, is it because she is being selfish (she thought I was) is it because deep down she hates me? Whats the purpose of them doing NC?

Link to post
Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC

When you are being dumped and they say they want you in their life, that is loosely translated as:

 

"I want you at my beck in call, whenever I want you. You are my marionette."

Link to post
Share on other sites
×
×
  • Create New...