No Limit Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 Not cheating but depending on the topics that are talked to emotional cheating and even if it were more like basically "selling the pictures to the highest bidder" without any kindness to it it would still cross boundaries and be a no-go as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Try Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 Not cheating but depending on the topics that are talked to emotional cheating and even if it were more like basically "selling the pictures to the highest bidder" without any kindness to it it would still cross boundaries and be a no-go as well. How is it that cyber sex that includes "skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else" not cheating? In your mind is intercourse the only thing that can be called cheating? Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted May 5, 2015 Share Posted May 5, 2015 How is it that cyber sex that includes "skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else" not cheating? In your mind is intercourse the only thing that can be called cheating? Cheating means different things to different people. I'm with no limit on this one. I don't define it as cheating, but it's so wrong I'd end the relationship. Some classify porn as cheating, I don't. Different strokes, for different folks. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted May 5, 2015 Share Posted May 5, 2015 There has to be some kind of relationship between them, how many people do you know that send naked pictures of themselves to someone they are not at least comfortable with? The other thing your friend needs to consider is his private parts are forever floating around in space. Imagine years from now and if things work out you marry him and have children together. When children are old enough to use a computer guess who they Google first, mom and dad. Guess what might show up Link to post Share on other sites
a22g Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 Caught my girlfriend doing this about 4 months ago. The content in her texts were disgusting. I stayed with her for another 2 months, but at that time all that was built burned to the ground and quickly. I broke up with her last month. Id much rather be alone and not have to worry about that kind of sh*t. Oh, and when I confronted her about it her response was: "it was only a text". 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoenician Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 Yes cheating , breakup , if engaged yes , if married for years and have kids , may be I would address Reconciliation ; not for her sake , for kids sake ... Link to post Share on other sites
Phoenician Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 yes cheating . yes will break if engaged... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 If you found out your partner was skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else without actual physical intimacy ,would you consider it cheating ? Yes and it's totally inappropriate behaviour when you're in a committed relationship/marriage with someone. It is crossing lines and intentional and damaging to the relationship you're in. (general you) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh. Your 'friend' is an idiot and ask him how he'd feel if he caught his gf/fiancee whom he's living with doing the same thing? Sending sexy pics and sex chats with some guy on webcam. My guess he would NOT be okay with that. He needs to grow up and stop being so selfish. No way should they get married!!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh. I guess if your friend is "okay" with it then...I mean it is possible the two of them have an arrangement you don't know about. Does she have low self-esteem? Does she usually let men walk past acceptable boundaries? If so, then she probably isn't okay with it but she's making excuses for the behavior because she doesn't know how to be alone. Link to post Share on other sites
TunaCat Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Yes, I absolutely consider it cheating. There's no reason at all for an exchange of naked pictures to happen. I'd be out of the relationship so fast heads would be spinning. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Very much so. On what planet is trying to tantalize other people with nude photos of yourself not cheating? Link to post Share on other sites
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