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JohnsonBaby

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If you found out your partner was skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else without actual physical intimacy ,would you consider it cheating ?

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If you do or say anything to another person that you wouldn't do in front of your significant other, then it's cheating.

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Redhead14

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Would you break up over it?

 

Faster than it took to hit the send button on those pictures . . .

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Michelle ma Belle

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YES and HELL YES!!!

 

Is this really a serious question?

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YES and HELL YES!!!

 

Is this really a serious question?

 

Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh.

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Yes, it's cheating.

 

And I would have a hard time believing the visuals weren't exchanged in person as well.

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Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh.

 

It's emotional cheating. She is seeking attention from other men. Which is a clue to you that something is amiss in the relationship.

 

If she has not communicated to you that something is lacking in the relationship for her and instead is "remedying" the situation for herself by doing this, she has breached the trust factor by eliminating/avoiding/sidestepping her responsibility to communicate with you about your relationship.

 

Your friend is in denial and refusing to the accept reality and, for some reason, choosing to justify her boyfriend's behavior likely because they don't have good communication skills either.

 

One of our Presidents had a problem with the definition of sex/cheating some years ago. He handled it by sidestepping and minimizing the issue "I did not have sex with that woman".

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Michelle ma Belle

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Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh.

 

Ugh. She's living in a bubble. She's either painfully insecure or so desperate to keep that relationship at any cost that she's refusing to acknowledge the obvious. So so sad.

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It's highly inappropriate. I don't know if I'd break up over it IF it stopped immediately but my trust would be shattered.

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If you found out your partner was skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else without actual physical intimacy ,would you consider it cheating ?

 

Been there done that, yes it is cheating because if it goes on long enough, you will be hearing the story that starts with: "One thing led to another and..." You get what I mean.

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Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh.

 

People define different things as cheating. Personally, I deem it inappropriate to the point that I would break off the engagement. It doesn't have to be labelled cheating to be a dealbreaker.

 

The main thing for me, is that trust is broken and with him exhibiting such behaviour, it's only a matter of time before he has a physical affair, if he hasn't already.

 

He wouldn't be marriage material in my eyes.

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100%.

 

If my partner were to have a slip up and hook up with some dude at a bar, I'd be much less concerned than an ongoing emotional connection.

 

That's far worse.

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If you found out your partner was skyping pretend-sex, exchange pics and obviously sex- talking to someone else without actual physical intimacy ,would you consider it cheating ?

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Would you break up over it?

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Well I know it's a silly question for most but a close friend of mine is of the opinion that since her fiancee of 4 years (they live together) allegedly didn't meet up with the girl he web-sexed its not REAL cheating . Smh.

1) Yes it is cheating.

2) Yes you should break up over it.

3) Yes it is cheating, it does not matter that someone else decided to rationalize it away because they did not have the strength to call it what it is. Hey some people have open marriages and it is not cheating because they both decided that being sexually exclusive was not important to them. You never agreed, she hid it from you because she knew that you would not agree, thus it is cheating.

 

I have answered your questions now answer one of mine. How does it feel knowing that some other guy has naked photos that he has been masturbating to as they have been having cyber sex, and that regardless of if she breaks it off or not, that he will forever keep these photos to masturbating to and to show to his friends? She was and will forever be his and his friends porn star.

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Geeze, he is pulling these cyber stunts on his fiance....someone he is about to walk down the aisle with and have her commit to him. Not even into mundane marriage life yet, and he needs to seek out cyber nookie. Its a dead cert bet any such partner will physically be cheating soon after the luster of newly married life wears off.

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Well, if your friend is silly enough to not think the sexting is cheating, tell them to just give it some time. I'm sure it will be more convincing when they hook up and start to discuss it.

 

Your friend, whoever that is, is in Disneyland.

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100%.

 

If my partner were to have a slip up and hook up with some dude at a bar, I'd be much less concerned than an ongoing emotional connection.

 

That's far worse.

Different strokes for different folks. Emotional connection? Meh... Sex? Over and done with...

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It's emotional cheating. She is seeking attention from other men. Which is a clue to you that something is amiss in the relationship.

 

If she has not communicated to you that something is lacking in the relationship for her and instead is "remedying" the situation for herself by doing this, she has breached the trust factor by eliminating/avoiding/sidestepping her responsibility to communicate with you about your relationship.

 

Your friend is in denial and refusing to the accept reality and, for some reason, choosing to justify her boyfriend's behavior likely because they don't have good communication skills either.

 

One of our Presidents had a problem with the definition of sex/cheating some years ago. He handled it by sidestepping and minimizing the issue "I did not have sex with that woman".

 

 

Excellent breakdown from Redhead!

 

I went through a similar scenario with my most recent RS however they where not *nude* photos. It was a glamour "pin-up" photo if you will. Fully clothed chest up facial photo. The kicker was it was sent to her ex.

 

It was for the most part a catalyst to our break-up. He just wanted closure blah blah blah. So let me get this straight he wants closure and you are sending him pictures? WTF? He lived states away and he really wasn't a threat to our RS, however it was def inappropriate. If she's getting attention from him then who else is there locally that she may be doing the same? Trust was for most part destroyed, to many damn red flags.

If it feels like your woman is sabotaging your RS then get out! She's not of sound mind. Not marriage material, end of story.

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