Any ? I have a sick feeling I'm going to run into OM this weekend.

[Wondering33]

I'm going out with some family & friends this weekend (in the town EX OM lives & works) & I just have this feeling, he's going to be around. It's been almost a year since we slept together & over that since we've had regular contact.

 

Im a nervous wreck bc it's been so long & I don't know if he'll revert back to his old ways, seeing my car & either waiting for me outside, following me when I take off or the unexpected text. Maybe he won't but I'm so nervous that he might, he's never not & even with no contact he pulled his crap in December when He saw me & parking right next to the gas station I was at just to stare. I don't want be cornered. This weekend will be 7 years to the day our A started & I know he remembers. If he approaches me I don't know how I'll react, I honestly think I'd just burst into tears, which I don't want him to see. So many emotions, this man reminds me of so much of shame, hurt, anger, friendship & love all at the same time.

 

Advice on how to handle him? Men your advice would truly be appreciated!

[Wondering33]

Sorry! Title was suppose to say Any Advice*?

[Morro72]

Rent a car? Have someone else drive? Gas up before you go? Go somewhere else? Go sometime other than your "anniversary"?

 

Is this trip really necessary?

[jen1447]

I take it you don't like him? Smile and say "f*ck off."

[GirlStillStrong]

Don't go there. Go somewhere else. If your family will not change the venue, stay home.