alphamale Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Well that is what I am asking for. The "know how" to get the thorn out for good.... no one here can give you this knowledge, COC. You need to figure it out yourself and in your own due time. You know what is wrong and you know it is not working and detremental to your love life. Now YOU need to figure out how to fix yourself and your attitudes when you are in love with a woman. Sorry but you are on your own here, just like the rest of us. Just for the record I used to be like you ten years ago. You know, the "nice" guy who did anything for women, blah blah. After I got burned a few times I started adjusting my attitude and outlook on women and love. It was a lot of work and hurt a lot and took some years but I did it. And it is still a work in progress and i'm still learning. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer You take it out an inch at a time... it's a big thorn, so just roll with it. OMG!! That sounded sooo hot Westy! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer You take it out an inch at a time... it's a big thorn, so just roll with it. Steve Windwood? Just roll with it, baby..... Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 OC, tune your radio to 97.1. One hour until showtime... give it a shot. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita OMG!! That sounded sooo hot Westy! Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Steve Windwood? Just roll with it, baby..... LOL. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 I agree, Alpha. Perhaps some ideas on what I can do to change my attitude in the right direction. I know yours. "Don't give a f*** about any woman." Hard to do when you're in love. I think if I don't contact her on her birthday, she *will* wonder..... Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Yes, and she will respect you. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC I agree, Alpha. Perhaps some ideas on what I can do to change my attitude in the right direction. I know yours. "Don't give a f*** about any woman." Hard to do when you're in love. I think if I don't contact her on her birthday, she *will* wonder..... right....start small. we do not expect you will be blowing chics off after a shag.....at least not the first month. it is all about trail and error. do something, se how it goes. now you may need to give each instance of "new technique" a few days to see the reall affect....sometimes way longer. but you will start to get it. and back to that whole be yourself...well this is where that plays in. you know yourself the best, and what you are willing to do and not do......... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Thanks. I just have to keep telling myself "Slow down, son. What's the rush?!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Where can I listen to Leykis online? Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 There is no rush. There is no rush. There is no rush. Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer There is no rush. There is no rush. There is no rush. This reminds me of something my Dad told me once. He said: There was an old Bull and a young Bull grazing on top of a hill. Looking down at the cows, the young Bull looked at the old Bull and said....."Hey, let's run down there and a poke us one of those cows"........the old Bull looked up and said, "How about we walk down there, and poke the whole damn herd?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer There is no rush. There is no rush. There is no rush. I should start smoking pot. LOL. At least then I wouldn't be in a hurry for anything! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by Moose This reminds me of something my Dad told me once. He said: There was an old Bull and a young Bull grazing on top of a hill. Looking down at the cows, the young Bull looked at the old Bull and said....."Hey, let's run down there and a poke us one of those cows"........the old Bull looked up and said, "How about we walk down there, and poke the whole damn herd?" Muahaha. Very funny! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Where can I listen to Leykis online? I don't think they have streaming available, not for KLSX anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Crap. Oh well, I can tune in after work and on the way to the gym. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 He saves his best material for 5 p.m., since that's when most people leave work. The two hours prior to that are just to build momentum. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Ah good then, I'll have a break from John and Ken Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 Tom is always ripping those two when he talks about ratings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Tom is always ripping those two when he talks about ratings. They are kind of annoying but I really like their views on many issues, including illegal immigration. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 I used to listen to them back in the day... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I used to listen to them back in the day... Back in the Day - Megadeth (The System Has Failed) Man, you guys are full of musical connotations today Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 21, 2005 Share Posted April 21, 2005 I never reached Megadeth... Metallica got in the way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 21, 2005 Author Share Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I never reached Megadeth... Metallica got in the way. Right now, Megadeth is by the far the better band. Buy "The System Has Failed" and you'll forget about "Sellouttica" - and this is from one of their greatest fans. They've done nothing since AJFA. On topic, how do you guys deal with the anxiety of NC?! I keep checking my email thinking she is going to email me but I know she couldn't care less. But I know when she goes to sleep and hugs the bear I bought her, she'll be thinking about me. Especially when I don't email or call on her BD. Maybe the thought of her wondering about ME for once will be enough to get me through.... Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 22, 2005 Share Posted April 22, 2005 You do your best not to think about it while finding something (or someone) else to do. It takes time, but then it gets easier. After all, the past is dead. (I agree with you about Metallica... would never buy anything after the black album. I don't listen to metal anymore, but I will be looking into that Megadeth album for old time's sake. Thanx.) Link to post Share on other sites
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