Popsicle Posted May 10, 2015 Share Posted May 10, 2015 To those of you who are LD and have met their partner online, when you finally met up and had sex for the first time, was it bit awkward? I'm just having trouble imagining how it can't be even a little awkward. Well, maybe it would be for me since I need to have spent enough time with someone face-to-face to grow comfortable with their physical presence (through my senses) in order to not feel awkward. Link to post Share on other sites
Ijustdon'tgetit Posted May 10, 2015 Share Posted May 10, 2015 The first time was a tad awkward for me lol. He asked if he needed a map ahah! After that it was bliss We waited a few days first so we were able to relax a little because I was quite nervous on first meeting whereas he was much more comfortable. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted May 10, 2015 Share Posted May 10, 2015 Mine hasn't happened yet....will I be nervous, yes, as I would with any man the first time. There's always the first time, I'll be brave. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted May 10, 2015 Share Posted May 10, 2015 To those of you who are LD and have met their partner online, when you finally met up and had sex for the first time, was it bit awkward? Not at all. I guess it also depends on how long you've been waiting for that moment. And how long you've been knowing him, even if not spending all that time with him in the flesh. I'm just having trouble imagining how it can't be even a little awkward. I guess I thought of that too, among other things. But before making love completely, we had kissed, cuddled, felt one another, etc. So full sex happened on another visit, later on. And by then, I knew it would just feel natural, because all the things that I described previously just happened in a very natural way. I need to have spent enough time with someone face-to-face to grow comfortable with their physical presence I think I'm that way too. I'm quite cold at first. But he knows how to make me melt. I think that you shouldn't meet him with the deal of having sex with him the first time. It's wise to wait and see what happens after you first meet him. At times, one of the two goes home and communication slows down. I guess you'd have a much harder time if that happened to you after making love with him. So I guess I'd test the relationship first, and then move on to sex. All the best to you! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Popsicle Posted May 10, 2015 Author Share Posted May 10, 2015 All the best to you! Thanks, I was just wondering. I don't plan on engaging in this. Link to post Share on other sites
Foodjunkie79 Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 I **** myself!! Was shaking and all sorts......but he just took control......which was a blessing I guess! I learned a lot from him tho....stuff I didn't know was imaginable......and now, believe it or not......hes pissed that I have too much confidence!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Foodjunkie79 Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 I also found that he seemed to like the fact that I was niave and unaware!!! Strange men!! Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 My partner and I spent several months talking for hours pretty much every night and Skyped (including plenty of cyber sex fun ) at least twice a week long before we ever decided to meet up in real life. When we decided to finally meet I was both excited and anxious. I had NEVER done anything like this before so it was all very new territory. Our initial meet and greet at the airport was a tad awkward I think mostly because we couldn't believe we were finally together. By the time we drove home, he barely set his suitcase down before we were all over each other. And it was f*cking fabulous!!!! Apart from getting some water and sustenance, I don't think we left my bedroom for 3 days :D Again, I haven't done the LD before but if I had to guess why the sex wasn't awkward for us could have been because we already had a very exciting and pretty fulfilling virtual sex life thanks to Skype for many months before we ever met in person. There was a sense of familiarity and knowing that made the whole process a bit more comfortable I think. Good times! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
fred123 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 My partner and I spent several months talking for hours pretty much every night and Skyped (including plenty of cyber sex fun ) at least twice a week long before we ever decided to meet up in real life. When we decided to finally meet I was both excited and anxious. I had NEVER done anything like this before so it was all very new territory. Our initial meet and greet at the airport was a tad awkward I think mostly because we couldn't believe we were finally together. By the time we drove home, he barely set his suitcase down before we were all over each other. And it was f*cking fabulous!!!! Apart from getting some water and sustenance, I don't think we left my bedroom for 3 days :D Again, I haven't done the LD before but if I had to guess why the sex wasn't awkward for us could have been because we already had a very exciting and pretty fulfilling virtual sex life thanks to Skype for many months before we ever met in person. There was a sense of familiarity and knowing that made the whole process a bit more comfortable I think. Good times! What if you havent done any sex stuff like me and the girl im skyping with. We havnt done any sexual stuff online. As a guy should i do that? Is that a sign the girl likes you if she does sexual stuff with you? Also some of the posts here from women show that they know or want sex on their first meet. Link to post Share on other sites
fred123 Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Mine hasn't happened yet....will I be nervous, yes, as I would with any man the first time. There's always the first time, I'll be brave. So you know that you want sex /gonna have sex when you meet? Do girls think about this before they meet a guy? Also how do you know or how does the guy know (im a guy so would love the insight!) that we are friends or more than friends? Surely the fact that you are thinking about sex implies you like him more than a friend? Link to post Share on other sites
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