Simon Phoenix Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 (edited) Absolutely disagree. Expecting someone to spill feelings in voice mail is unrealistic. Some would, some would not. I had an ex that wanted to get back together that started with a simple missed call from her. I had moved on so I called back. We ended up meeting up for drinks two weeks later and she spilled her guts in person. Well, they can call later, or text, or email, or stop by. It's on them to make their feelings known and do the clear majority of the work -- it's not on the dumpee to chase after them. That's foolish. As for your situation, you were healed and didn't care. I've always said if you really don't care and have no reconciling agenda, it's up to you. But he cares, so your situation isn't very applicable. I guarantee your ex would have tried again and upped the ante if you hadn't called back. Edited May 12, 2015 by Simon Phoenix 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author GarrusVakarian Posted May 12, 2015 Author Share Posted May 12, 2015 Well, they can call later, or text, or email, or stop by. It's on them to make their feelings known and do the clear majority of the work -- it's not on the dumpee to chase after them. That's foolish. As for your situation, you were healed and didn't care. I've always said if you really don't care and have no reconciling agenda, it's up to you. But he cares, so your situation isn't very applicable. I guarantee your ex would have tried again and upped the ante if you hadn't called back. Well I did drop a quick text last night. So far radio silence, but I didn't expect much else. Probably was a mistake if anything as most people say. Mainly it came down to curiosity. She has blocked me on all forms of social media Facebook,whatsapp,LinkedIn and beyond. So really don't know why she would still have my number?. When she called it off and said she wanted to be friends, I pretty much said I didn't want to be friends with her. What would be the point?. Said I wasnt a priority to her, new job was. but she wouldn't say no in the future. She started blocking me when a month later I got fed up with her stuff around house and returned it. Returned home one day and found my stuff shoved through letterbox. Thats when the blocking stated. As another post of mine said I have been out on lots of dates trying to meet as many women as possible. I shall continue to do so. Just none have pushed my buttons like she did so far. Im kind of meh about it. But can't help who you really like like!. Link to post Share on other sites
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