Slept with someone else's GF and I don't feel bad about it.

[JustAnotherU]

Hi guys,

 

I will get right to it as this has been bugging me for a while. There's this girl that just came to work in the country I am living. She came here in September 2014 and I always had my eye on her at work.

 

Finally, I found her on Facebook and started talking to her. She was very friendly and I enjoyed talking to her. Quite a few times, I asked her to have coffee with me but she gave me the old "sure, when im free" line. Obviously, at one point I asked if she is already committed to which she said she has a boyfriend and they have been together for 5 years. The boyfriend is still in her home country. I still continued to talk to her and expressed my interest nevertheless.

 

Over the course of the next few weeks, she opened up to me saying things like her boyfriend doesn't give her enough time, she is doubtful about her long term relationship with him, she doesn't see it going anywhere to which I thought I would take the opportunity of asking her out again. She agreed and she came over at my appartment. She lives like 200m away. We cooked dinner and talk for a bit. Eventually we started kissing. Nothing else happened.

 

The next day she comes over, she tells me she hasn't broken things off with his boyfriend who is coming to see her here in 3 weeks. I tried to act cool about it and even told her a few interesting places he could show him around. However, later that night she stayed over and well, we had sex. More than once.

 

She still came over quite a few times, 1-2 weeks before the boyfriend gets here and slept with me without breaking things off with the other guy. She even admitted that the sex with me is great. Better than her current boyfriend who is also her first boyfriend. For the boyfriend as well, she is her first girlfriend. High school sweethearts.

 

However, just before her boyfriend comes here, she went back to her home country for a few days. Once there, apparently, the boyfriend came to pick her up at the airport and stuff. I didn't pay much attention to it.

 

A day after, I get a text from her saying she has told her boyfriend all about us and that she can't see him in pain like this. Apparently, since the boyfriend was coming in three days, she told him to work things out with her to which he agreed and eventually he got here a day after this girl gets here. They eventually stayed together for around two weeks and the guy even got his girlfriend a ring and promised to work things out with her although its hard. So i leave them be. Although i was really sad. I was really into this girl and her manners were just perfect towards me.

 

The boyfriend leaves this country after two weeks and I get a request on Facebook from her. She eventually deleted me before her boyfriend gets here but then added me back. I found it a little odd but accepted it anyway and we continued to talk. She was a little sick so i went to see her. She told me she doesn't want to be with her boyfriend anymore and apparently broke things off with him.

 

The boyfriend begged her for a week before giving up. He even called me to express how disappointed he is in me, her ex etc. No doubt he was in pain, he actually cried on the phone with his girlfriend begging her not to leave her. But she did anymore and the guy didn't take it lightly. He called me and this girl's friends and tried to talk to all of us.

 

Eventually I had to block him everywhere to stop him from sending me messages. Now this girl also blocks him everywhere and resumes her life. The boyfriend eventually tries to move on with his life and on seeing that this girl got a little jealous and tried to give his boyfriend hope who again came back to beg but this girl didn't want to get back to him. When I asked for explanation on this, she told me she was just missing him a little.

 

The boyfriend stopped fighting for her and tried to move on. He deleted all his social accounts and this girl can't contact him except by e-mails. She didn't and I have no info on the guy. This girl is still keeping the ring and refused to give it back when the guy asked.

 

No matter how she is, I have real feelings for her even though we both haven't really talked about it. The sex is great and well, life is good right now, I guess.

However, she is going back to her country this week and I can't help but feel like something bad is going to happen, I don't know why. Or not.

 

She promised to not do anything although the last time she went, she eventually slept with her boyfriend and they slept together for two weeks when he was here on holidays. I know how much the boyfriend had to spend to come here. Huge amounts of money and he made her stay at a Sheraton Suite with her here. I'm not sure if the guy is loaded or anything but I do know he is quite smart and worked his ass off to be here with his high school sweetheart. I also know he lost his mother and sister both to cancer and maybe that's why he took the breakup a bit hard, whimpering and crying everyday on the phone with her.

 

Generally, I would feel really bad about him but I don't feel a thing and this girl still comes over from time to time. It's clear she has feelings for me too. The things she does, the way she talks to me, the messages.

 

How messed up is this?

[Hawaii51]

What did her bf's dick taste like?

 

Legit question, I need to know for my educated response.

[JustAnotherU]

What did her bf's dick taste like?

 

Legit question, I need to know for my educated response.

 

No idea but she never performed oral sex on me here while she admitted to doing it to him while he was here. She seems to greatly enjoy the sex with me and has said over and over again to me (and her friends).

 

Her feelings for me aren't going unnoticed as well. So I don't think it's just about the sex.

[Satu]

I think you and this girl are well suited to each other. I think you deserve each other.

[Diezel]

Her feelings for me aren't going unnoticed as well. So I don't think it's just about the sex.

 

And that's what she'll say to the next guy after she cheats on you.

[elaine567]

 

Generally, I would feel really bad about him but I don't feel a thing and this girl still comes over from time to time. It's clear she has feelings for me too. The things she does, the way she talks to me, the messages.

 

How messed up is this?

 

Well done!

You won!

That snivelling bf, was no match for you.

You super-stud!

You bagged the cheating, lying girl-friend.

Excellent!

Good Work!

[Michelle ma Belle]

How messed up is this? Very.

 

And you have good reason to feel worried when she returns home. Karma is a b*tch.

[JustAnotherU]

How messed up is this? Very.

 

And you have good reason to feel worried when she returns home. Karma is a b*tch.

 

She is going for around 3-4 days and she told me she won't contact the ex. The ex has been going NC for two weeks and apparently his friends are around him who are preventing him from meeting her. So maybe, nothing will happen after all and she will get back to me here.

[Michelle ma Belle]

She is going for around 3-4 days and she told me she won't contact the ex. The ex has been going NC for two weeks and apparently his friends are around him who are preventing him from meeting her. So maybe, nothing will happen after all and she will get back to me here.

 

I think this speaks volumes.

[JustAnotherU]

I think this speaks volumes.

 

I'll trust her this time. Since the boyfriend don't want nothing to do with her now, nothing will happen.

[Satu]

I'll trust her this time. Since the boyfriend don't want nothing to do with her now, nothing will happen.

 

You'll try to trust her, and you'll hope that nothing happens.

[sandylee1]

It's very messed up indeed.

 

Maybe at some point in the future, a guy will sleep with your girlfriend and not feel bad about it. What goes around comes around.