confused05 Posted April 22, 2005 Share Posted April 22, 2005 Hello all, I have been dating my girlfiend for about a year this coming month. Shes started getting un happy lately the last few months we recently lost our baby and moved in together in hopes to have a good place to raise our kid etc. Well now shes not pregnant and we have a place together ( previously we would basically live out of my bedroom with the parents ) so we kinda been living together for 6 months or so. I want to have a decent sit down with her tonight I dont think its going to do much good but im going to try my hardest now my question is.. Is counseling an option or is that a joke for a 1 year serious relationship? I am trying to explore all my options with this girl I love her so much and would do anything under the sun to make this work out. Thanks, Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted April 22, 2005 Share Posted April 22, 2005 That is an excellent idea young man! Good for you!!! there is such a thing as couple councelling and there is no "time together limit" if you feel that some professional direction may help you and your girl then go for it! You have BOTH been through some very adult situations so why not? If you love her this much now can you imagine the strength the two of you will have as a couple after the councelling? You amaze me! bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused05 Posted April 22, 2005 Author Share Posted April 22, 2005 Thank you so much im trying so hard. Were both 26 if that matters. I would do anything for this girl and the situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 Counselling can be good for anyone - no minimum or maximums. Loosing a baby is tough - happened to me with the first pregnancy. (I was 25) A woman's body has to deal with the hormonal changes from the loss of pregnancy as well as the emotional loss. So she may need some time. It took me at least six months of grieving - and it was a total unplanned pregnancy. And although that was 22 years ago, I still on occasion think how old that child would be now. It is fantastic that you are so supportive - my hubby basically couldn't understand what the problem was and why I was so messed up. Best wishes to you both. Link to post Share on other sites
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