Birthday present for husband/wife/SO, what you get? Need ideas for husband B-day gift

[Ruby Slippers]

I think he's romantic. A guy doesn't sit on The Stairs day after day waiting for his lady to appear if he's not romantic! You are the treasure he longed to capture, and now he's got you. You could leave him clues to a treasure hunt on The Stairs... a flower, a sweet picture of you, a little thing of chocolate... leading to you and your booty lol

 

You often edit your posts while I'm replying. So sometimes I miss something If he likes physical touch, definitely give him a lot of that for his birthday. He will love it.

[Lois_Griffin]

Perhaps you should get a second job also? That way you would be working equally as hard and feel that you are contributing equally.

 

Also - you would both be equally as tired when you are home together.

She probably already HAS a second job - cleaning, cooking, laundry, food shopping, and everything else involved in keeping up their home.

 

I guess all that work doesn't count?

[thestaircase]

I think he's romantic. A guy doesn't sit on The Stairs day after day waiting for his lady to appear if he's not romantic! You are the treasure he longed to capture, and now he's got you. You could leave him clues to a treasure hunt on The Stairs... a flower, a sweet picture of you, a little thing of chocolate... leading to you and your booty lol

If he likes physical touch, definitely give him a lot of that for his birthday. He will love it.

 

Your making me laugh so hard, LOL! You sure got the humor Ms. Ruby Slippers,

It does sound like my husband is a creeper, but he not.

 

In defense of my husband. I'm the girl in his neighborhood, and we were friends prior to dating.

Yeah, he choose the public staircase that closest to my apartment, quietly sit there and wait for me.

It wasn't every single day. But whenever he back from work and he have freetime. He would come back to this same staircase and wait.

 

My staircase is facing the parking lot, so I no choice but to passed by this stairs and passed by him in order to get to my apartment. Smart Libra right? LOL

 

People reading this probably think he is a creeper, BUT...

All the apartments here have staircase. These stairs are everywhere and have lights on too. It belong in the public, anyone can stand/sit wait out there if they wants. Even little kids run up and down these stairs to play, so it public.

It not my staircase, it not my property. It just happen to be the staircase closest to my apartment.

 

I didn't think it was romantic. I think he was love-struck.

But I was touch by his persistent, and I can't never forget this. His 'image' burn in my brain permanently.

 

Lesson learn for him, don't fall for a girl in his own neighborhood. Because with such close distance, freaky things will eventually happen, lol

 

Lesson learned for me, don't fall for a "Street smart" neighbor guy, who happened to be a Libra with a sexy voice.

Libra men sure have the looks and the charm, and they really know how to get the girls. They will swept you off your feet in no time, lol

[thestaircase]

She probably already HAS a second job - cleaning, cooking, laundry, food shopping, and everything else involved in keeping up their home.

 

I guess all that work doesn't count?

 

 

Well, thank you for your kind words.

 

I'm a College dropped-out. I don't have a College degree, as obvious from my bad English grammars too, but I'm Chinese so English is not my first language.

 

 

I work one job and it pay me enough to support myself. I work in Retails/Sales (Women Shoe department)

I get pay hourly and little commission, but I make enough to pay Rent and Bills.

I'm Financially independent from my husband. So his B-day gifts are from my own working money. I don't use his money.

 

Rent are this month I pay, next month he pay (my insist). I like to be fair, and I want to stay fair.

He working 2 jobs that doesn't means he have to pay more Bills. I told him to save money in his saving, and to help out his mom if needed.

His mom is the only immediate family memebr that he got left, and she is old now.

 

 

Yes, I cook, I went to buy grocery. I clean the house, I do laundry.

I have a mother in-law and I put her needs above my own. I try my best to fulfill my duty as his wife.

But sometimes I don't think I do enough, maybe I'm too hard on myself.

But then there always room for improvement when it come to how to be a wife.

Edited May 27, 2015 by thestairs

[Got it]

Why not put together a lovely picnic, have a great place picked out and surprise him with it? Have some splurge foods, nice finger food, maybe near water or a natural landmark? Then take into account his interest and find a museum that is tied to history in your area.

[thestaircase]

Mrs. Ruby Slippers, did you know that you have a great sense of humor, and you are very fun to be around?

Whoever your future husband is, he is sure one lucky man!! Because you can give him alot of fun, and you have alot of great romantic ideas.

Unlike me, a very boring Chinese girl who doesn't even know how to make her husband B-day fun.

 

 

Asking Ms. Ruby Slippers this, since you are an American woman.

You see, I'm Chinese so my husband knows he can bully me, lol

 

Last time I mentioned when me and my husband were 'just friends' only. NOT dating, two people live in the same neighborhood and just friends.

He wants a handshake, and he just doesn’t let my hand go, and out of nowhere he Kiss my hand. It was so quick unexpected that I don’t even have a chance to pull back my hand.

 

And he choose the public staircase that closest to my apartment, quietly sit there and wait for me.

Whenever he have freetime, he would come back to this same staircase and wait. This staircase is the staircase where he waited for me alot.

 

Now as 'just friends' only. If a guy do that to you, chase you that hard and be that BLUNT. How would YOU react Ms. Ruby Slippers?

You probably scold or smack the s-h-i-t out of him, and kick him away right? Because you would think he is a creeper right?

 

 

You see, I should have kick him away, instead of be passive. But I was sexually attracted to his "Street smart", I can't find myself to reject him. It was also my fault too, I have my own fair share of lead him on.

 

 

Give him sensual and soothing gifts, like something to make him more comfortable at work, a comfortable seat pad for the truck or something like that.

 

See, I didn't think of this before. My reason was because my husband is only a LOCAL Truck driver. He doesn't drive long distance, he only drive LOCAL, so he is home with me every night.

So I don't pay attention to his Truck, because he drive Local so how hard can it be.

 

You see, you are a better wife than me. I should have pay attention to this details of his. I need to learn from you on how to be a wife.

Edited May 27, 2015 by thestairs

[thestaircase]

To Ms. Ruby Slippers,

I also need to learn to not be so hard on myself.

My husband he knows I like Pearl. So he wants to buy me pearl rings, pearl necklaces, and pearl earrings. But I said No, there nothing he can do when he his wife won't let him buy it.

 

The first year when my husband chase me, he sat on my staircase with Jasmine flowers wait for me. He knows I like jasmine so he wants to keep buy it. But again, I won't let him.

Because jasmine is not easy to find like Roses. I don't want to see him go out of his ways just to get me jasmine.

You know roses are everywhere in every stores. But jasmine is harder to find.

I told him to buy me jasmine flower pots instead, so I can plant and water them.

 

 

Do you have a favorite flowers?

I'm going to work now. Talk to you later tonight

Hope you have a good day at your business with your clients. Remember to update me about your dates with that 2 male friends of yours, the Virgo and Scorpio.

Edited May 27, 2015 by thestairs

[Ruby Slippers]

Thank you, thestairs. You are such a doll

 

Now as 'just friends' only. If a guy do that to you, chase you that hard and be that BLUNT. How would YOU react Ms. Ruby Slippers?

You probably scold or smack the s-h-i-t out of him, and kick him away right? Because you would think he is a creeper right?

lol NO! I don't think your husband was a creeper. I think he was lovestruck, as you and others noticed, and he was totally focused on winning you over. This is the absolute highest ideal in love! He was fascinated with you and wanted to devote his life to loving you and the family you would create together. Good man, he won you over and now he's living his dream!

 

The man who I feel loved me the most so far, and whom I loved the most, also chased me hard. When it's right, that's the way it should be. The Scorpio I just met has been rather intense in his pursuit so far - but I like that he hasn't gone too over the top, given that we barely know each other at this point. He's established a strong but reasonable communication pattern.

 

I also love jasmine flowers and any other fragrant, night-blooming flowers, like gardenia. Let your husband give you the things you love! It deeply fulfills a man in love to provide beautiful things to his woman to make her happy. This is why he is working so hard to build a beautiful life with you and your future children. Your part is to show your appreciation and acknowledge the deep happiness that he ignites within you.

 

Your marriage is the type of marriage that I dream of and aspire to. It's the absolute highest ideal in romantic love! You are very, very lucky, and so is he :love:

[LovelyBrown]

This is such a cute thread!

I actually just did a boudoir photoshoot for my husband for his birthday! I'm really excited for him to see it. It will be for his eyes only and bring a bit of spice to our relationship.