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Go with the flow/be patient or move on?


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I made a post recently, which you can read here:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/526891-should-i-keep-letting-him-chase-me

 

i'm not sure what to do next..if i should keep being patient/waiting or don't get my hopes up and stop talking to him.

 

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We have been texing for over 2 weeks now ( i know not the best form of communication.) he had asked me to get dinner last weekend, but he was called into work. He said next weekend (meaning this weekend) he will definitely be free. We're texting now and he still hasn't said anything about seeing one another.

 

I don't know him very wellyet, but i do know he's a really nice guy and is not as outgoing and crazy as his friends. So i don't know if he gets nervous to directly ask me to go out with him. The first time we even discussed getting food together- it came about through a sports "bet" and me jokingly saying "so when are we getting that food together?"

 

My brother is really good friends with him so i've heard a lot of great things about him. He has also been the one to initiate almost all our conversations. He seems very interested.

 

Should i say something like "are you still up for some pizza tomorrow?" Or again should i leave it up to him?

 

I'm so bad with all of this and figuring guys out. I don't want to come across as too available, but at the same time i'm tired of texting constantly. I would rather us just see one another already.

 

Thoughts!?

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