bongo Posted March 14, 2001 Share Posted March 14, 2001 Why is it that most girls like to date bad boys?? Sometimes the nice and sweet guys don't even get the chance. When you ask women, most of them would tell you they of course like someone nice and treat them with respect. Care to comment on this, anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted March 14, 2001 Share Posted March 14, 2001 Girls like bad boys because they are more spontaneous than "good" boys. Good boys are predictable. I'm not saying that that is a bad thing (to be a good boy) but spontinaity is fun! and challenging. But, sometimes the spontinaity is in the form of anger or deceipt because all of a sudden right out of the blue the "bad" boy will dump us for some unknown reason and that's where you good boys rule! you would never do that! Why is it that most girls like to date bad boys?? Sometimes the nice and sweet guys don't even get the chance. When you ask women, most of them would tell you they of course like someone nice and treat them with respect. Care to comment on this, anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 14, 2001 Share Posted March 14, 2001 You came to the right place. YOU WRITE: "Why is it that most girls like to date bad boys??" We are talking about GIRLS here because when a girl becomes a WOMAN she generally starts to appreciate kind and considerate men. If not, she has a case of arrested development and probably requires psychiatric attention. Girls like bad boys for a number of reasons. First, to them guys who are too nice are quite sickening to them. Many girls have low self esteem so they feel they don't deserve to be treated nicely. Many were raised by strict or abusive fathers and equate being knocked around with love and expect a guy to abuse them as their father did. Mostly, girls (even older ones) like a challenge. They don't want a guy to present himself on a silver platter, give them anything they want, take them wherever they want to go, kiss their butt, etc. They don't want flowers all the time, they don't want to be constantly showered with gifts. Most girls get absolutely sick to their stomaches if a guy is so desperate he feels like he has to be so sweet to win the heart of a lady. A lot of girls, who are used to being around their fathers all their lives, just don't believe a boy is being himself or genuine if he is all that nice. Bad boys are a challenge. They also bring out the instinctual female desire to change them, to make them better, to raise them up right, to correct their behavior, and to make them into good boys over time. Females LOVE to fix males. Often they would rather fall for a defective one just so they can spend their years working on his problems...instead of finding a guy with relatively few hangups. It just depends on the female and her upbringing. Sometimes females just find it so much easier to believe a guy is a baxtard. When a guy is super nice and kind, he seems almost too good to be true...so they think he must be faking it. You aren't going to change this so don't even try. But you can understand it. It's pretty simple. It's been this way for hundreds of years and it'll probably stay this way until the end of the world. If you want one of those nice girls who likes bad guys, put a personal ad in the paper for a nice girl who is looking for a highly defective guy she can fix and make better. I promise you'll get lots of calls. There will always be a place for nice guys, so don't worry. It's probably in the priesthood and they need lots of those. Dominus Vobiscum. Older women who have been around the block a few times and have some experience behind them eventually come to enjoy a truly nice guy. So if you are a nice guy, date older women, stop being so nice, or just don't date for five or six years until these girls grow up to become women. I hope that explains it. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted March 15, 2001 Share Posted March 15, 2001 hi bongo, nah, bad boys are so offputting. they're generally arrogant, self-absorbed and fickle. i have never found bad-boys attractive because generally it is known what their game is, hence the "bad boy" tag. gimme a nice sweet, caring guy anyday. it's probably the naive girls that end up with the bad boys, and the wiser women who will search for a nice guy. perhaps you could try dating woman instead of a girl Link to post Share on other sites
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