He's being weird.

[gabriela_13]

So, once, I was talking to this freshman, he was really cool and he was friends with my friends so we got to see each other everyday at school. Everyone would make fun of us dating but we always denied it. He seemed interested in this girl, she was one of our group of friends. Then one day, I went to this party and he was there, and the girl he seemed to has a crush on was making out with another boy, he looked like he was mad at her, but I wasn't caring, I was just enjoying the party, thennn he called me and said he knew that I had a crush on him and I was like??¿¿ but I was kinda bored so we made out for like 2 hours and things got a little bit too far, but we haven't had sex. After it he treated me SO WELL, he'd give me little kisses in front of everyone and it was just magical. Monday, at school, we just greated with a cheek kiss, and since then that's all we've been doing. One day, my friend came to me and said he was saying bad things about me, he didn't told me what he said, I think he was afraid of me getting embarrassed. Now, almost all of the friends we have in comum hate him, and say things like, you deserve something better. But I don't know that happened in fact. I kinda like him, at least I care about him and it's been two months and I still haven't moved on, and WE ONLY HAD A NIGHT TOGETHER. I'm a fool. COULD SOMEONE JUST HELP ME.

[jakrbbt]

You're not a fool: for one thing, you are smart enough to have good friends. They are helping you to see the proverbial red flags, so you can dodge the proverbial bullet.

 

If I were you, I would not even care enough to know exactly what it was that this turkey said or did, I'd just shrug and leave him be and DO NOT fall for it when he inevitably starts calling you to get back together or go out.

 

I am not too impressed with the way he got you to go out with him in the first place.

 

So you kind of fell for someone, and you were wrong about him. That is so natural, there is probably not one person on the planet who hasn't done that. That doesn't make you a fool. Now would be the perfect time, though, to officially stop caring about him and walk away.

 

Easier said than done, I know, and even that takes time. But the decision to be done with him, is separate from the hurt feelings you are still going to have. Just know that time is your best friend because it's going to take the hurt feelings away. The more activities you can do, the better. And the decision to be done with him is still an excellent one.

 

Congratulations on not getting stuck in a relationship with a jerk. Can you imagine if he were always around to make you feel this crappy for years? Another few weeks, maybe a few months, and you'll be feeling tons better. In a few years, you will have a hard time even remembering this guy existed.

Edited May 18, 2015 by jakrbbt