Author KissofGrace Posted May 25, 2015 Author Share Posted May 25, 2015 Peel away all the layers and THIS is what you've been reduced to. After relocating, after 3 years of the mountain of lies, manipulation, false promises, tons of drama, etc. etc. etc. You're reduced to being called by someone else's name. I truly hope you find a better life for yourself. DAM Lois, i never saw it like that. Thanks so much for pointing this out. it stung, but dang it needed to be identified. I will have a better life for myself...one without him in it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author KissofGrace Posted June 1, 2015 Author Share Posted June 1, 2015 DAM Lois, i never saw it like that. Thanks so much for pointing this out. it stung, but dang it needed to be identified. I will have a better life for myself...one without him in it. still stinging.....a little bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Matahari007 Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 If you're single and he's the one that is married I don't understand how you cheated on him? This whole back and forth with him going away with his wife and saying he did and didn't sleep with her.....How can you believe anything that comes out his mouth after he verbally chewed you up & spit you back out with no remorse? You don't owe him anything. You owe it to yourself to find a single, available man that treats you like the Queen that you are. Just because you have history with him doesn't mean you owe him another 3 years of your precious time. This is all dysfunctional sweetie and you really need to let this go and move on. Change your #, cut off all lines of communication like instant messaging, social media, emails, texts, & phone calls. He can only do what you allow him to do. I wish you the best! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author KissofGrace Posted June 2, 2015 Author Share Posted June 2, 2015 If you're single and he's the one that is married I don't understand how you cheated on him? This whole back and forth with him going away with his wife and saying he did and didn't sleep with her.....How can you believe anything that comes out his mouth after he verbally chewed you up & spit you back out with no remorse? You don't owe him anything. You owe it to yourself to find a single, available man that treats you like the Queen that you are. Just because you have history with him doesn't mean you owe him another 3 years of your precious time. This is all dysfunctional sweetie and you really need to let this go and move on. Change your #, cut off all lines of communication like instant messaging, social media, emails, texts, & phone calls. He can only do what you allow him to do. I wish you the best! Matahari, yes I am single and he states I cheated on him because we were "committed" to one another....except that he forgot THAT part when he had sex with his W, both before my ONS and on this vacation. He states those are the only times they've had sex---UHHH RIGHT! :rolleyes:i now do not believe him. Sadly, i did in the past. And honestly at this point the truth, whatever that may be, is irrelevant. i am no longer interested in even asking him anything else. I've gotten to the point where i don't care...and that makes me sad but at the same time it liberates me a little bit more to let go and move on. I will find a single, available, man that will love me and not try to change me and except me for the Queen that i am ! and treat me as such. Thank you for the vote of confidence. i think i was holding on because of our history, but i have excepted that it's time to let that go too. it was what it was and the situation today is what it is and neither of us can do anything to change that. tough lesson for both of us to learn...well i hope one day he learns it. I for one am and although it is painful and saddening, i will be just fine. my heart will be fine and i will love again, it just won't be him. I do recognize all the dysfunction of this now. i have had to accept it and painfully begin to let go. I like what you said "He can only do what you allow him to do." and i so agree with you and guess what? He won't do anything to me anymore...and if he does, i'm anticipating him bringing me sadness as i grieve this relationship, it will be from a far! Thank you for your kind words, that have heeled me to take another step in the right direction. All the best to you too! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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