joel Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 a couple more of my comments we are in the classroom and a ambulance or firetruck sirens are ringing- myself and the ppl i am with don't see its a ambulance or firetruck yet -but i say "oh no they're comin to get me" joey-says for what me-hmmm i don;t now with a grin -and then later i might laugh to myself another comment to a women i am attractd to she walks by i say "ah damn yeaaa" would that work-then later i might laugh to myself i am wearing a muscle tees i flex my biceps em and say ah hey guys which one do u think is bigger and then laugh after i say my comment so u work at xxxxxx yea they hire all the cute gurls there. "ah i knew it a beautiful women like u could never be singel what was i thnking" this is after i ask her if she has a bf-is this a good flirting line a girl classmate offers me a bag of wethers orginals,but doesn't excpet me to take the whole bag of it just one candy,-i say "ah thanks all for me hey" ahahhahahhahahahahh then later after the laughing i say jsut kidding hahahhaha what do gals or ppl think of a guy that says comments and then later laughs at his jokes or comments, but no all the time ,just to the comments and jokes he thinks is funny-not sure if the person listeining to it is funy. Link to post Share on other sites
AngelEyz Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 I don't think I understand what you are asking. it makes it less funny when someone laughs at their own jokes if that is what you are wanting to know. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 I think "sarcastic" is a completely wrong expression to describe your comments. You really shouldn't strive to be sarcastic if you want to flirt with someone as it often is considered to be a real turn off. Making jokes though in a nice way is ok. Your spelling and grammar is still giving me the creeps. I honestly don't know why you are asking for advice when you never pay attention to what people say. Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Originally posted by kooky Your spelling and grammar is still giving me the creeps. I honestly don't know why you are asking for advice when you never pay attention to what people say. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Greenhorn, I'm not joking. If he was someone who recently immigrated to Canada and writes like this, it might be excusable, but I think that's not the case. If he talks like he writes, then he definitely has to work on this. That's what I have told him before and other people as well, but he doesn't seem to pay attention to it at all. I understand his insecurities as I also have to struggle with social clumsiness, but he clearly dismisses any good advice that people give him. Neither does he give feedback nor does he seem to appreciate their concern for his situation. Maybe he thinks this message board is so anonymous that you don't have to bother about social conventions or politeness, but my guess is that it's just a reflection of how he acts in real life and how he treats people. My personal opinion about his jokes is that someone who tries so hard to be cool is not really cool. Making jokes is also not always a requirement to be popular, I know people who are popular and cool and they do not try to entertain people with witty remarks. What makes them cool though is their self-confidence and laid-back way. Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Chill Kooky, nothing to get angry about it, I didn't think much in just putting one smiley there.Well I don't know what is the story of the poster, I was not tracking him. I could not make out anything from his post either and I thought he is putting his jokes here for us to read and you thought that he is asking for advice. Ok my fault, I was thinking of doing something mischievous as I was getting bad feelings in my head so wanted to divert. sorry greenhorn Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 I'm not angry or anything. I'm just commenting on some things in general that I noticed about the original poster. Link to post Share on other sites
macoxp Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Originally posted by AngelEyz I don't think I understand what you are asking. it makes it less funny when someone laughs at their own jokes if that is what you are wanting to know. I have to say that is true. I also find that I get more pleasure out of my friends laughing at what I have said then when Im laughing. It's a great feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
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