lovefirst777 Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Every wonder if under black cloud dating all wrong men but you have a great personality and beautiful inside and out. All your friends saying you are great and beautiful but all wrong guys seem to hit on you constantly. It might be funny comparison but just positive next date get better but it does not feel strike out baseball game. Somehow, you still hopefully positive something great going happen in romance. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Every wonder if under black cloud dating all wrong men but you have a great personality and beautiful inside and out. All your friends saying you are great and beautiful but all wrong guys seem to hit on you constantly. It might be funny comparison but just positive next date get better but it does not feel strike out baseball game. Somehow, you still hopefully positive something great going happen in romance. Welcome to my hell... If I'm such a catch, then why am I not "caught"? Eh, I already know the answer so I'm not gonna dwell on this. I once told a gf that if she really wanted to get married, etc, she would have long time ago, and she looked at me like if she had Superman's vision, she'd laser me to death.... So, I believe that if I really wanted a husband, kids, and all that I would have made myself available/open to it long time ago....but what I want is not what people want...So, I'm stuck in "getting some when I can get it" for the rest of my life...oh well, I guess it's more notches on my bedpost and part of me is getting to the point in my life where I could care less what people think about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Welcome to my hell... If I'm such a catch, then why am I not "caught"? Eh, I already know the answer so I'm not gonna dwell on this. I once told a gf that if she really wanted to get married, etc, she would have long time ago, and she looked at me like if she had Superman's vision, she'd laser me to death.... So, I believe that if I really wanted a husband, kids, and all that I would have made myself available/open to it long time ago....but what I want is not what people want...So, I'm stuck in "getting some when I can get it" for the rest of my life...oh well, I guess it's more notches on my bedpost and part of me is getting to the point in my life where I could care less what people think about it. Honestly speaking, I think you are probably far too intelligent and perceptive for a lot of men. But don't change. You might meet a man worthy of you, yet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Honestly speaking, I think you are probably far too intelligent and perceptive for a lot of men. But don't change. You might meet a man worthy of you, yet. Thank you, and not to toot my own horn, but forgive me for my arrogance in advance... If I "settled", I'd probably be coupled up long time ago... So, when I look around at the "couplings" around me, who settle for this or that -yes, part of me is envious that guys would overlook me for fat, lazy, manipulative, and/or stupid...but that's their purgatory if they don't envision themselves for something better. I'd rather be alone than with some guy who's insecure about whether or not he is worthy of me. I mean, I'm not a 10 by any means, but I believe I have a lot to bring to the table and cuz of my choices in guys, time wasted, and leftover singles out there who have been tainted by "progressive/modern" crap and the feminist movement - not much "eligible bachelors" to choose from. Eh, but I believe I'm coming to peace with the fact that I'm gonna be alone till death and just be grateful to find "Mr. You Might Do Just for Now" and enjoy him until the next guy rolls around... Oh well, Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 In all honesty I think its a combination of false promises, fake personas and an unrealistic dream. Couple that in with working and getting into set ways that mean that you don't meet many new people often. Well it just gets harder. As you get older you get more cynical in general... As least thats how it is for me. I don't want to be swept off my feet just have another pair of feet to dance with... finding someone is easy. Finding someone that wants to stick around and that I want to stick to... well thats the difficult bit. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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