GoldieLox Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 Good luck to you Sassy... Some affairs are strictly about friendship and enjoying each others company. It seems to me this is what the OP's was about (Sassy, feel free to jump in if I'm off base). Not every affair has to entail romantic feelings and emotions. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sassy Girl Posted May 25, 2015 Author Share Posted May 25, 2015 Some affairs are strictly about friendship and enjoying each others company. It seems to me this is what the OP's was about (Sassy, feel free to jump in if I'm off base). Not every affair has to entail romantic feelings and emotions. Exactly. There was plenty of chemistry but also a mutual respect and understanding. Neither of us wants more from the other. There were no comparisons with spouses. When it was just us, it really was just about us and it was really nice. But that's all it was. Link to post Share on other sites
GoldieLox Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 Hmmm, my above post meant to quote another poster who commented on the fact that Sassy's affair sounded rather cold, however I accidentally quoted Southern instead... Well, you get the point, everyone Anyway, I hope this turns out well for you Sassy and doesn't blow up at all with his wife. Crossing fingers it goes away quietly. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lurkeraspect Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 Sassy, I always enjoyed the straight up, no nonsense advice that you give out here. You truly sound like you have no delusions about your affair or your marriage. I hope you end this affair and end your crappy marriage too. Certainly you deserve someone that is worthy of you. All of you. Best of luck and I hope you'll keep us all posted with your progress. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RoseVille Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 Some affairs are strictly about friendship and enjoying each others company. It seems to me this is what the OP's was about (Sassy, feel free to jump in if I'm off base). Not every affair has to entail romantic feelings and emotions. I'm still bummed when a friendship ends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sassy Girl Posted May 26, 2015 Author Share Posted May 26, 2015 I'm still bummed when a friendship ends. Lol careful... You respond to my posts so much Im starting to think you like me Where did I say I wasn't bummed? I said I'll be fine. And I will. Break ups happen all the time. It's not he end of the world. Link to post Share on other sites
m4p Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Lol careful... You respond to my posts so much Im starting to think you like me Where did I say I wasn't bummed? I said I'll be fine. And I will. Break ups happen all the time. It's not he end of the world. Kudos for being so strong and calm! Just because you know what is needed to be done (ie. end it), and you actually do it, doesn't make it any less painful. It doesn't always have to be all theatrics and internal drama (like me). I am sure you are not feeling "nothing" at all, but is choosing to trudge on with your decision because it is for the best. I wish you the best of luck. Hugs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 I said I'll be fine. And I will. Break ups happen all the time. It's not he end of the world. Sassy, In reading much of what you post, I have to say that you keep it real. You say it as it is and no beating about the bush. You're very logical in your responses and logical and real about your affair. I hope you can make your marriage better, if that's what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
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