JenniLynnFer Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 I need some help! My fiance was married in the past and got cheated on so started to cheat on his then wife. So he now has a pretty bad track record. I was cheated on in the past so have some serious trust issues in my current relationship. My fiance and I share our passwords to our email, and I was going through his trash file. I found some emails from one of his co-workers, which stated something about a computer program that someone else created(another co-worker). My fiance apparently needs help with this program, so she is offering to help. One email was stating how she would do anything for him., and how she would come to his apartment to work with him. He stated that he did not want her to come to the apartment and would rather meet her somewhere else. So today he got an email saying that she would want to meet him on tuesday or thurdsay, and that the whole preocess would take several hours, and then ended the email with looking forward to see you. As I'm sitting here typing it doesnt sound all that bad. But my stomach keeps on turning. The other night he promised me that he would be to bed in 10 minutes, his cell phone rang and after waiting for awhile I just feel asleep. In the middle of the night I woke up and looked on his phone and he had been talking to her for about 45 minutes. Normally when she calls and I'm around he's like what does she want. Or why is she calling so late, normally about 9. This occasion she called after 11. I don't know what to think. I have such a trust issue from my past. I wish that I could just let it be no big deal. Any input? Thanks so much for your time! Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Have you met her? If not, why don't you suggest everyone meeting for drinks after work. Invite some of your coworkers and have him invite her. When I had suspicions that my (now) husband (then) boyfriend had something going on with another woman, I knew my suspicions were accurate when I met her. She was obvious with her inability to make eye contact with me and her anxiety whenever we were in the same area. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JenniLynnFer Posted April 24, 2005 Author Share Posted April 24, 2005 I have not been formally introduced but I have seen her on several different occasions. One of which she was sitting extremley close to him on a picnic table and seemed to be rubbing his leg. when I asked him about it he said that I was seeing things, which then I assumed to be true Link to post Share on other sites
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