BC1980 Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 I am not destroying anyones family. I am just getting back my only true love . Those two things aren't mutually exclusive. They can coexist. But I agree with the idea of waiting for her to be a "free woman" before you do anything. You're banking on a lot though. You haven't seen her in years, and she has changed. You don't live in the same country. I'm betting she won't go through with the divorce. Has she even mentioned divorce to you? You also have to be aware of her character. She will do the same thing to you that she is doing to her husband. You aren't special to her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TommyRD Posted May 30, 2015 Author Share Posted May 30, 2015 Those two things aren't mutually exclusive. They can coexist. But I agree with the idea of waiting for her to be a "free woman" before you do anything. You're banking on a lot though. You haven't seen her in years, and she has changed. You don't live in the same country. I'm betting she won't go through with the divorce. Has she even mentioned divorce to you? You also have to be aware of her character. She will do the same thing to you that she is doing to her husband. You aren't special to her. she has new pictures in her facebook page. And in my next vacation i have plan to see her in person. I do regret, letting her family make drcision in her behalf 10 years ago. This time, i don't want to regret it again. Just i need to be more wise about it. Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 I want to thank all of you. As a said before , my ex will decide by her self, what she really wants. I do beleive that, I have the right to get her back if she is free a women again. "Divorce" exist, and couple do it when they are not happy. I will marry her and i will take care of her child as my child. I am not destroying anyones family. I am just getting back my only true love . You spoke about this with her or this is you fantasizing? Link to post Share on other sites
Author TommyRD Posted May 30, 2015 Author Share Posted May 30, 2015 You spoke about this with her or this is you fantasizing? I didn't tell her anything.i will see when i meet her in person in my next vacation. I prefer to wait untill she makes her decision. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 I will marry her and i will take care of her child as my child. So that means you will move to Europe? Or do you just plan on "replacing" the husband in her world? Don't you think her daughter loves her father, and that he has a right to see them? And don't hold your breath on her making a decision, you're on the hook already, just where your soon-to-be-affair-partner wants you to be. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted May 30, 2015 Share Posted May 30, 2015 Yeah..this chick is bored. Don't expect anything from this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TommyRD Posted May 31, 2015 Author Share Posted May 31, 2015 Thank s to all of you. I am done, i feel so tired.I can't think anymore, i want peace in my mind. I think i am giving her a lot of time and attention. life is short, i will live my life without her. and keep her love as a nice gift, and close the gate. no more drama in my life. thanks again Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 Now that's an unusually quick change of heart. What happened? Link to post Share on other sites
Author TommyRD Posted June 2, 2015 Author Share Posted June 2, 2015 Now that's an unusually quick change of heart. What happened? To remember her, and all the moments we had together. it makes me happy. But when i get to point that she is with some else now, and she is having family. It Hurt's me, its Late to start again... It will create more pain to others... Link to post Share on other sites
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