Author losangelena Posted September 18, 2015 Author Share Posted September 18, 2015 I agree w/LA and it's been getting on my nerves too. Anytime I come across a thread that involves a late bloomer, BAJ won't stop grilling the OP w/questions to make himself feel better. My advice? Start sending a PM w/your questions and leave the threads alone. Or better yet, start your own thread about your concerns and fears. My situation is one of many; there are others here you can give you insights. I need not be your sole source of information/inspiration. Like I said, how inspirational can we be? We didn't work out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 I agree w/LA and it's been getting on my nerves too. Anytime I come across a thread that involves a late bloomer, BAJ won't stop grilling the OP w/questions to make himself feel better. My advice? Start sending a PM w/your questions and leave the threads alone. I've tried sending PM's but no luck and it doesn't mention anything if I'm banned from sending them Link to post Share on other sites
Author losangelena Posted September 18, 2015 Author Share Posted September 18, 2015 I've tried sending PM's but no luck and it doesn't mention anything if I'm banned from sending them Well, start your own thread. I can already tell you I'm not willing to get into a long PM back and forth, sorry. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon_Dude Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Hey LA! Just wanted to say that I know things may kind of suck right now, but I for one think you're pretty cool. Also, you're not alone in this stupid heartbreaking world. Have a great weekend! OD Link to post Share on other sites
Author losangelena Posted September 19, 2015 Author Share Posted September 19, 2015 Hey LA! Just wanted to say that I know things may kind of suck right now, but I for one think you're pretty cool. Also, you're not alone in this stupid heartbreaking world. Have a great weekend! OD Thanks, OD! You guys have all been really great and supportive this week. By the way, what part of Oregon are you from? I grew up in The Dalles. Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Hey LA! Just wanted to say that I know things may kind of suck right now, but I for one think you're pretty cool. Also, you're not alone in this stupid heartbreaking world. Have a great weekend! OD Hmmm..... if you two haven't been formerly introduced.... OD meet LA. :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon_Dude Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Thanks, Katie. Just a couple of heartbroken fools on the rebound! Link to post Share on other sites
Lovelorn00 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 I suppose. I kind of took it the other way, though. Like, if he'd never really been sure about me, then I guess that makes sense, in some way. But the fact that he DID feel sure at one point just makes me wonder harder what happened. I know that I'm responding to an old-a$$ post, but I'm still reading through this thread, and I kinda wanna cry. This statement alone is what I go through every single day. Link to post Share on other sites
CalvinM Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Well, why should you apologize? You didn't actually accuse your boyfriend of cheating. All you did was comment that you didn't know whose stray hair was attached to the shirt you'd just put on. Don't make a mountain of a mow hill. But, if you're really wondering whose hair it is, buy a commercial hair analysis kit and test it. I'm sorry, but I just had to point out that it's mole hill. Not mow hill. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author losangelena Posted October 14, 2015 Author Share Posted October 14, 2015 I'm sorry, but I just had to point out that it's mole hill. Not mow hill. Wouldn't it be great if we had mow hills, though? Thanks for participating in the thread. The woman who wrote that is not even active on the site anymore, but dually noted. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Just caught up on the last couple of pages - sorry it didn't work out, OP. Sounds like it's for the best really. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Wouldn't it be great if we had mow hills, though? Thanks for participating in the thread. The woman who wrote that is not even active on the site anymore, but dually noted. Did you do that on purpose? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author losangelena Posted October 14, 2015 Author Share Posted October 14, 2015 Did you do that on purpose? Who me?? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ghsmith71 Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Well, start your own thread. I can already tell you I'm not willing to get into a long PM back and forth, sorry. LOL you got a great sense of humor don't you? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 I've tried sending PM's but no luck and it doesn't mention anything if I'm banned from sending them It's frankly ridiculous that someone posts a thread about their R problems/breakup and the only thing you can think about is how you can utilize their situation to benefit YOU. If you worked on this lack of empathy, you might find relationships a bit easier to navigate. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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