confused about mom Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 My parents have been happily married for 25 years. My mom is 48yrs old, religous, and has always been a very involved mom. I recently found a drawer in her room filled with thongs and sex costumes. At first i figured it was for my dad but then sometimes when i would come home from school and nobody was home i would go into my parents room and find my moms thong laying on the floor or a costume on the floor. She couldnt have used it for my dad cause hes at work. What should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Having these items doesn't provide proof of an affair. Try respecting your parents as much as you'd like to be respected and stop snooping in their bedroom. Link to post Share on other sites
confused about mom Posted April 28, 2005 Share Posted April 28, 2005 What about the fact that i come home from school after nobody being home all day except my mom, and i find a thong and costume on the floor, one time a small paddle was their also. And the thongs are not normal either they are like satin, leather, one is made of chains. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 I would do nothing. You really don't know anything and telling dad or asking your mom would not be a smart thing as you have no proof. Unless you see some man other than dad at home then let it go. Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 Ummm... Try staying out of your parent's bedroom. Maybe he came home for a lunchtime quickie! I think you are jumping to conclusions. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 I agree with the others...Don't do anything...I bet you your mom and dad have been doing some things together while nobody is home in the afternoons. My suggestion is to just keep an eye out from afar and see what happens. But definately don't say anything...Until you really find some evidence..Even then, that's a real tough one. Hang in there and try not to think of the worst! Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 30, 2005 Share Posted April 30, 2005 I have a hard time believing if something was going on, your mother would leave the damning evidence right there on the bedroom floor for all to see. Link to post Share on other sites
Jadey Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup I agree with the others...Don't do anything...I bet you your mom and dad have been doing some things together while nobody is home in the afternoons. My suggestion is to just keep an eye out from afar and see what happens. But definately don't say anything...Until you really find some evidence..Even then, that's a real tough one. Hang in there and try not to think of the worst! I totally agree with this. Dont go jummping to conclusions. Its probably perfectly innocent. It wos probably used for your dad . Dont say anything just keep a look out. Good luck Keep ing Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia I have a hard time believing if something was going on, your mother would leave the damning evidence right there on the bedroom floor for all to see. Seriously. If you've seen the drawer, your father probably has too. She wouldn't leave it lying around where you or anybody else could find it, especially on the floor. That's your best sign that your parents are just having a little fun... what, did you expect them to inform you? Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Who knows if your mom had anything to do with it at all......maybe there's some sicko theif who broke in, and wanted to see if your mom's costumes went with his collection? Then, when your mom and dad discovered that someone was messin' round' with their toys....they were too embarrassed to explain it to you......I agree with Pocky, ( I normally do ), display the kind of respect you wish to have from mom and dad, and stay out of their room. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetpea01 Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Just cause it's not stuff you'd expect your parents to have, doesn't mean it still can't be theirs. Besides, if your mom was having an affair - she would put that stuff in a box, and lock it up out of sight. She probably would not even be bringing those things into her house. She and your dad probably have an...exciting sex life. SP Link to post Share on other sites
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