singlelife Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 I mean most of them are ugly. What's the attraction? Just because a guy can sing? Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 Creativity and thoughtfulness is a draw for me, big time. I don't really care about being 'sexy' playing a guitar live or sth, just the ability to do the stuff they do gets to me. Songwriter is more attractive to me than musician. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted June 1, 2015 Author Share Posted June 1, 2015 Creativity and thoughtfulness is a draw for me, big time. I don't really care about being 'sexy' playing a guitar live or sth, just the ability to do the stuff they do gets to me. Songwriter is more attractive to me than musician. Good stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 Talent, creativity, and sometimes sensitivity. I know a lot of musicians, singers and instrumentalists, and very few of them are mean or obnoxious. The few that are tend to be 'managed' by the others. Generally, it's a community, a brotherhood and sisterhood. I am also interested in musicians, being one myself. We understand each other. We talk guitars! I guess it's like any special interest group, you get to know who is admired for their talent and personality and who is avoided or even feared. Dating a musician just because they are on stage and talented though, is a bit risky. Get to know the person first! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sagetalk Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 I mean most of them are ugly. What's the attraction? Just because a guy can sing? Hey, who are you calling ugly?! I'm not a professional musician, but I have written songs and played the guitar for most of my life. Men who have musical abilties are naturally more in touch with their emotions and feelings. I think a lot of women find that attractive. Especially if he is able to hold onto his masculinity in the process. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted June 1, 2015 Author Share Posted June 1, 2015 Hey, who are you calling ugly?! I'm not a professional musician, but I have written songs and played the guitar for most of my life. Men who have musical abilties are naturally more in touch with their emotions and feelings. I think a lot of women find that attractive. Especially if he is able to hold onto his masculinity in the process. sorry dude 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 My last BF was a singer in a blues band, he played guitar and harmonica as well and he was super sexy and very good looking. I broke up with him due to his lack of willingness to commit and his roaming eyes/hands. I'm now wary of musicians, because they are surrounded by groupies and temptation. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 most good musicians have that ability to see beauty in what others overlook, there's a sensitivity, there's mystery......there's a deep soul there.....theres a lot of the time a damaged soul who can play out their pain behind the person strumming that guitar.....stroking the piano keys or breathing into a saxophone until veins pop out.... if it isnt pain they play they also play for pure love of making music...sometimes its both.....that to em makes a good artist exceptional..and music is gods gift to everyone......so i admire respect and support artists..i cant read music at all.....i am more a tonal girl.......but i can write lyrics....and i would like to make music someday with someone special.....i talked lyrics one time with michael hutchence.....he was a special person.....a tortured artist......and a good person with problems.....he was out of it when i talked to him....and he sounded sane...thats the funny thing,.,. i have dated musicians.. have dated them because we talk about music......and our passion for music....passion for music is huge with me.........so is heart......most musicians have heart.........deb.. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted June 2, 2015 Author Share Posted June 2, 2015 most good musicians have that ability to see beauty in what others overlook, there's a sensitivity, there's mystery......there's a deep soul there.....theres a lot of the time a damaged soul who can play out their pain behind the person strumming that guitar.....stroking the piano keys or breathing into a saxophone until veins pop out.... if it isnt pain they play they also play for pure love of making music...sometimes its both.....that to em makes a good artist exceptional..and music is gods gift to everyone......so i admire respect and support artists..i cant read music at all.....i am more a tonal girl.......but i can write lyrics....and i would like to make music someday with someone special.....i talked lyrics one time with michael hutchence.....he was a special person.....a tortured artist......and a good person with problems.....he was out of it when i talked to him....and he sounded sane...thats the funny thing,.,. i have dated musicians.. have dated them because we talk about music......and our passion for music....passion for music is huge with me.........so is heart......most musicians have heart.........deb.. awesome explaination! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Maleficent Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 Neverdatingamusicianevereverevereveragain! Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted June 2, 2015 Author Share Posted June 2, 2015 Neverdatingamusicianevereverevereveragain! What happened? Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 I mean most of them are ugly. What's the attraction? Just because a guy can sing? We also play instruments, which means we're well versed with our fingers. Do the math here. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 I'm a musician, with a music degree, and spend most of my life engaged with music. Wouldn't gel with someone not as passionate about music. Also talent is sexy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 I agree with Mrs Rubble, I broke up with him due to his lack of willingness to commit and his roaming eyes/hands. I'm now wary of musicians, because they are surrounded by groupies and temptation. i dated one guy in a band and he was cheating on me from the get go. Link to post Share on other sites
O'Malley Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 Successful artists, not limited to musicians, can be very adept at creating emotional resonances through their work and passion. This quality is very attractive to many people, not just women. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
frogs88 Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 It only works when you play guitar or sing though Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 I don't date musicians but a friend of mine does. She meets plenty of them though considering that her father owns a company that does all the technology-stuff for the stage. Link to post Share on other sites
Male Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 Men who have musical abilties are naturally more in touch with their emotions and feelings. I think a lot of women find that attractive. On what planet is that true???????? All my life all I ever see are examples of women dissing guys for showing emotion and feelings(during the early phases of dating). -You're not allowed to tell a woman that you "like" her -You're not allowed to talk about what bothers you -You're not allowed to show any emotion other than being cool and in charge You basically have to play Mr Cool and almost pretend that you "dont like" her in order to keep dating a woman. I think its a very very small percentage of women if the reason they like musicians is because they like his being in touch with his emotions and feelings Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 I have to say, I have not met very many ugly musicians. Well, Tom Petty is pretty unfortunate, but other than that.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Male Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 I have to say, I have not met very many ugly musicians. Well, Tom Petty is pretty unfortunate, but other than that.... Alice Cooper? Mick Jagger? Steven Tyler? Ric Ocasek? Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 All i know is that they don't call guitar douchebags douchebags for nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
mandymor Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 I dated a few musicians in my time and they weren't ugly by the way. Most of the time what drew me in was the passion they showed. If they were really passionate and into what they were doing that was a huge turn on for me. The way they could let all their emotions out and expose them. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 Why do ladies date musicians? Because we're awesome 3 Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 I avoid artists. If you ask me, I prefer handymen or dentists. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 I mean most of them are ugly. What's the attraction? Just because a guy can sing? their songs talk about love and emotions Link to post Share on other sites
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