IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Recently my Best friend Mary of 7 years has hooked up with my brother. My brother has been in love with her since i first became friends with her. So this is like a dream come true for him. For some reason, (this is why you guys are here) I hate it! I don't like it at all that they are together. First off my bro went out with my other best friend and had one of the worst relationships in history and Mary was there for Jane to see her go through all of this and now she's with him. Mary is kind of a shallow person in the sense that she expects all of her boy friends to buy her diamonds. And my brother has no car license job money barely a place to live. I'm sorry but i don't like this. His whole attitude has changed and so has hers. How do i address it and what do I say? No one is going to listen to me b/c he's head over heals and she like him (not as much i hope) I hate it I hate it I hate It. And No I'm not going to hear "You should be happy for them" NO! He's not right for her and she's not right for him. She may be my best friend but she has the ability to control my brother and tell him everything. Like if I get into a fight with her. She would tell him "Stay with me don't talk to your sister" And he would. He would rob a jewelry store for her if she wanted those diamonds. She has the capability to brainwash him. Maybe I should just wait it out and when she sees that she has to buy him EVERYTHING she'll get sick. When he ask for money from her. She's not used to that. She's used to being spoiled. Sorry now I'm just venting. WHAT DO I DO! Its eating me a live inside! Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Don't do anything. Sit back and watch the show. You don't have to be happy for them either. BTW, with how you described your best friend, I wonder, why are you friends with someone like this anyways? Link to post Share on other sites
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted April 26, 2005 Author Share Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by Moose BTW, with how you described your best friend, I wonder, why are you friends with someone like this anyways? I'm not the one who has to buy her diamonds. She has been a good friend to me. I can't sit back. Seems like I'm losing my brother b/c he will do anything she says. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 IHNFC...what can you do? Nothing. Thats life. Hes your brother and i doubt you'll lose him. Hes gaga over her now because he has liked her for years and has this illusion of her. If shes the way she says I dunno why she's with him...but eventually it wont work out and your bro will come running back and your his sis and you have to be there for him. Dont get in it..because it will be worse for you. Like moose said just sit back and watch the show. Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Whoa..........you need to mind your own business. You are waaay too involved in what OTHER people are doing. Your brother can do what he wants and so can your friend. Its NONE of your business. You said yourself that your brother has "loved" her ever since he met her. God,..let him have this. Maybe you should think of OTHERS for a change instead of how someone elses relationship or feelings affect YOU. Get over yourself and let them do what they want. Its a free country. Link to post Share on other sites
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted April 26, 2005 Author Share Posted April 26, 2005 Originally posted by scarlyjones Whoa..........you need to mind your own business. You are waaay too involved in what OTHER people are doing. Your brother can do what he wants and so can your friend. Its NONE of your business. You said yourself that your brother has "loved" her ever since he met her. God,..let him have this. Maybe you should think of OTHERS for a change instead of how someone elses relationship or feelings affect YOU. Get over yourself and let them do what they want. Its a free country. I'm not doing this for me. I'm doing this for him. She's not right for him and she might clean him out b/c she has the power to do it. He would stop talking to my entire family if she says so and i don't want that. And if I get into a fight with her, I lose my brother to HELL NO!. I say what my other friend went through and I don't want this to be another vicious cycle. I have every right to become involved since he would never have met her if i didn't become friends with her. Its my brother and my BF, how more involved can i get? Wh is she gonna come to when shes fighting with him? ME! "Your brother this" and "Your brother that" And what happenes if they break up, do I lose my friend? She obviously can't come over anymore if he's home. Its gonna ruin everything. Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 So far all Im hearing is "ME,..ME,....ME,...ME,...ME...." Its not your decision to make if he or she are right for eachother. And it sounds like all your care about is how all this affects YOU. Some people need to make their own mistakes. If this IS a mistake,...they will see it in time. But you cant go around telling people what to do because of what you THINK MAY happen. If your Mom told you when you were in High school to dump your BF,...did you listen? DId you do it? Of course not. All that did was cause animosity between you and her. Thats what this will do between you and your friend,...and you and your brother. Trust me,.....no good can come from you meddling where you dont belong. Link to post Share on other sites
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