Author Camaro Guy Posted June 6, 2015 Author Share Posted June 6, 2015 well it's an insecurity I've been having so long on my mind now for being so damn far behind in the dating game/sex game, so much insecurity that the insecurity has often made me unmotivated to take action to fix my issues with women How can you expect to progress in life when you do the same **** over and over? You know Einstein's quote "Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results." You're pretty much in a hypnotized state, that you put yourself under. You need to snap out of it. Or one day, you will find yourself woken up by the sharp reality of life. You'll be like "damn, I'm 40 and I still haven't gotten any pussy yet." You don't want that. You need to change it up. What helped me snap out of it was a combination of several things. I started to realize that this was winnable. I have moments where I slip back but I am vastly improved than I was several years ago. As I said before, there are people who came from nothing. But now they are legends. Why? Because they didn't get bogged down by their circumstances. They saw it as another call to rise above and overcome. I see my status as a challenge. A call to arms. It's as if I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't have any reason to really go after anything. The need would be fulfilled. Thankfully, the desire for sex is peripheral to many other things in my life. I have an overarching end-game and I make steps every day to make it happen. At the beginning of this year, I made a dramatic reinvention of myself. I wanted to shed my old image and start again. You should do the same. For me, the four things that have helped me are books, gym, men's fashion, and learning new skills. How would you describe yourself in these areas? Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 How can you expect to progress in life when you do the same **** over and over? You know Einstein's quote "Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results." You're pretty much in a hypnotized state, that you put yourself under. You need to snap out of it. Or one day, you will find yourself woken up by the sharp reality of life. You'll be like "damn, I'm 40 and I still haven't gotten any pussy yet." You don't want that. You need to change it up. What helped me snap out of it was a combination of several things. I started to realize that this was winnable. I have moments where I slip back but I am vastly improved than I was several years ago. As I said before, there are people who came from nothing. But now they are legends. Why? Because they didn't get bogged down by their circumstances. They saw it as another call to rise above and overcome. I see my status as a challenge. A call to arms. It's as if I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't have any reason to really go after anything. The need would be fulfilled. Thankfully, the desire for sex is peripheral to many other things in my life. I have an overarching end-game and I make steps every day to make it happen. At the beginning of this year, I made a dramatic reinvention of myself. I wanted to shed my old image and start again. You should do the same. For me, the four things that have helped me are books, gym, men's fashion, and learning new skills. How would you describe yourself in these areas? been working out with a personal trainer for a month now, at the gym, I weigh a lot less than I did 3 and a half years ago, like 42 pounds less, went from a waist 40 to 34 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Camaro Guy Posted June 8, 2015 Author Share Posted June 8, 2015 been working out with a personal trainer for a month now, at the gym, I weigh a lot less than I did 3 and a half years ago, like 42 pounds less, went from a waist 40 to 34 That's good... How would you rate your style? Your social skills? Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 That's good... How would you rate your style? Your social skills? Social-skills, I would say I'm better at small talk than before or just I have an easier time socializing with someone, having a conversation with someone when it depends on certain topics, subjects. Style, I feel I need someone to do a make over on me Link to post Share on other sites
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