Flozfzx Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 My ex girl of 8 years came back to me a month ago but shes still in a rebound relationship of 4 months. Its coming up two months she still hasnt left the guy. She keeps telling me to wait that i cant put a time on things but i think shes playing games and honestly i am because it can go on months and months and just waiting on the side. Shes been doing actions that shes serious but still with this guy. I love her and wait but too a certain limit. What should i do just tell her to contact me when shes single and ready? Or ? Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 Tell her that you're not Plan B and to kick rocks. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
aloneinaz Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 Who wants to be a second choice, ever? Really? She sounds pretty terrible to expect you to sit back and wait for her "if" she or her BF ends things. I have to say, I've never heard of someone coming back still having a BF and wanting me to consider a reconciliation?!?! Usually, a dumper comes back after her short term rebound failed. You have to give it to this gal, she's got some big balls! Do yourself a favor my man, disappear from this persons life. Block her number or change your number and don't talk to her again.. You'll thank us all later, I promise Link to post Share on other sites
KBarletta Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 She is the one who left, no? In that case, it would be completely appropriate of you to tell her that it's either you or the other guy. If she keeps playing her waiting games, then tell her to forget it, walk away and don't look back. Just my $0.02. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 You block her and never look back. Don't ever respond to her breadcrumbs, you're just a treatment for the ego to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flozfzx Posted June 4, 2015 Author Share Posted June 4, 2015 I saw her last night we talked for a bit then she opened up and said that i hurt her pretty bad and still has that hurt still in her heart she cant get pass. I admit i i did hurt with my actions but never cheated on her or anything very serious. That still doesnt give her the right to keep me on the side right. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Unless you abused her I don't see why she's complaining. She's just wanting to get the cake and eat it too - and as long as you are following her along she gets just that. Link to post Share on other sites
pidgeon1010 Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 My ex girl of 8 years came back to me a month ago but shes still in a rebound relationship of 4 months. Its coming up two months she still hasnt left the guy. She keeps telling me to wait that i cant put a time on things but i think shes playing games and honestly i am because it can go on months and months and just waiting on the side. Shes been doing actions that shes serious but still with this guy. I love her and wait but too a certain limit. What should i do just tell her to contact me when shes single and ready? Or ? Shes been doing actions that shes serious but still with this guy There is NO action that overshadows the fact that she is still with someone else. I am guessing she broke up with you? Now she is having her cake and eating it too. You've already answered your own question. Stop accepting breadcrumbs and go NC. She can contact you when she is single and ready to be in a true relationship with you. I wouldn't put much hope on that though. She has proven herself to be deceitful and a cheater. Be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flozfzx Posted June 5, 2015 Author Share Posted June 5, 2015 I saw her again and caught her in a little lie which i dont care but if we are tring to heal from the pass she shouldnt be lying. I honestly dont know what to do i think im just gonna go NC and just go on about my life. Theres no way we can heal thru this if shes gonna go sneaking around with me and lying about stupid things theres no focus on us. Its not going to work. What you guys think and feedback would be highly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 NC and move on forever. She seems cluster B and you seem a bit codependent. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts