LouGee Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 (edited) Hello Everyone. First timer here! I've been in a roller coaster for emotions for about a year now. Back in Sept 13' My ex girl who I fell in love with broke my heart. She told me that she didn't love me and never wanted to be with me again. I kind of had it coming because this wasn't the first time she broke up with me. I gave her 3 chances to try and work on things before but this last time I found out the reason why she said that was because she wasn't 100% over her ex. Fast forward 8 months my ex contacted me. She wanted to meet up and talk. She wanted apologies for what had happen. Foolish me, I agreed. Within the 8 months I've dated several woman but one girl stood out the most and we became semi-exclusive but no serious commitment. So I met up with the ex, We talk and I agreed to see her a few more times but as time went on I couldn't let go of the fact of what she to me (she didn't love me and never wanted to be with me) but I still had strong feelings for her. I melt when I'm with her but at the same time, I lost trust in her. I started to have anxiety attacks because I was unsure of my feelings with her and to either stay with my her new girl or go with back with my ex. Should I stay with the new girl who is amazing and loves me for me, see where it would take me or should I go back with my ex who I still love. I thought I was over her when I started dating the new girl but when my ex contacted me, all these feelings started to come back. I know hearing this from a third person perspective it would be a no brainer but sometime the heart wants what the heart wants.... Some insight, advice anything would be much appreciated. Thank you Edited June 5, 2015 by LouGee Link to post Share on other sites
Yummm Posted June 5, 2015 Share Posted June 5, 2015 Hey buddy, welcome. Don't have experience with reconciling with an ex, but the advice I can give you is think about the future. You said you've been suffering for about a year, it's a long time and i'm sure alot of it was very painful. She has hurt you before and can definitely hurt you again. Is this something you are prepared to risk? What sort of feelings do you have for your 'non-exclusive' partner? Do you feel that you can build stronger feelings for her if you give it time? Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted June 6, 2015 Share Posted June 6, 2015 I would strongly advise committing to the new girl. Guys who allow themselves to become confused about which girl almost always end up with no girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Marco Valerio Posted June 6, 2015 Share Posted June 6, 2015 Hi friend, Give it a chance with the new girl, everything will be fresh. Keeping contact with your ex will be living in the past, and surely nothing good will come from it. Link to post Share on other sites
AJH1982 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 (edited) New girl, without a doubt! 3 chances are more than enought. Dont let her play with you anymore! New girl who is amazing and loves me for me - This are your words about the new girl! If you still love your ex don`t play with your girlfriend feelings. Best of luck Edited June 10, 2015 by AJH1982 Link to post Share on other sites
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