Foster212 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 So I ive been dating this girl for about 3 months now and just last night she calls me and tells me that our relationship is not the same anymore constant bickering she trust me very little and how we just keep going in this cycle where we end up trying to fix things this is the third time something comes up like this, sometimes she can be sketchy like on Facebook she edited her relationship status so I'm the only one can see that she's in a relationship and her friends are not able to see that she's in relationship, every time something like this happens she also takes of the "taken" of her Instagram. Our conversation last night was pretty intense she was being so pessimistic about mostly everything I said, overall she did mention that she will work on it because she wants this to work out. At this point I'm clueless on what to do next I want this cycle of bickering and just mistrust to go away and for once and for all us to have a healthy relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Too much drama for 90 days. With this many problems this early just walk away. There shouldn't be anything that needs work or fixing at this early stage. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 The whole thing sounds super fishy if you ask me. Clearly there is a lot more going on in your short relationship that you're not telling us if your girlfriend is saying things like she "doesn't trust you". Whatever. I agree with the above poster. WAY too much drama and childish shenanigans for something so new. It's like on some level you both want out of the relationship but no one wants to be the one to pull the trigger. Pull the trigger OP. Link to post Share on other sites
ZiggyZoo Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Sounds like she may be carrying some trust issues over from a past relationship. Or yeah, you've done something that makes her feel this way. In either case, I agree with the others, three months is way too short a time to have this type of behavior going on. Cut her loose, man. Link to post Share on other sites
AJH1982 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 dOnnivain is right! I`ve been there! If she is always finding things to be fix in your relationship it`s not a good sign! It`s your call, i agree with the others let her go! Link to post Share on other sites
JewelD Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I would let her go. Trust me, I tried to talk my bf into working things out many times, and he was also pessimistic about it, like he didn't want things to work out. And even though I talked him into it, the result was always the same, he would wait a few weeks and then complain about the relationship again. I believe some people just don't want to let go because they don't have anything else going on, so instead of breaking up, they just stop trying. So what's probably going to happen is you're going to break up with her or she's going to break up with you when something better comes along. You don't want that much drama just 3 months in. Its supposed to be the honeymoon phase. Link to post Share on other sites
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