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I will make this a condensed version. Nobody wants to read a story of someones past. From 21 - 36 relationship college sweethearts. I was her 1st man and only... unknown now if there isnt more. Still wondering if my best friend did something?

 

 

 

 

Up until 33 we were gf and bf got married at 34. In christmas that year i lost my job, our home everything but reinstated job back full time. january had to move in house with best friend (male) of 20 years for temporary our plan to get back on feet.

 

 

she became distant and then in April she left house to be with parents, me and friend lived alone with me accusing him for 1 month, i moved out in may, she moved back with him in june in our old bedroom as a roommate. he booted her out in august.

 

 

still to this day i wonder if there was an affair? what happened? note i can give a long version maybe key facts are missing?

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I doubt the affair.

He was a convenient place for her to move back to, because believe me, living with parents at that age does NOT look good on a resume!

 

The fact that he 'booted' her out a few months later says that either he was sick and tired of her freeloading, OR he just didn't want any fall-out or drama to feed your suspicions....

 

I would be inclined to give your pal the benefit of the doubt (obviously Full story not yet given!) but it sounds to me as if he thought better of anything....

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No affair. She got the boot because he didn't want to be a part of your drama. But then again we don't know your friend or what he said in his defense. Maybe she left because you made it difficult, and when she tried the roommate thing she may have tried to get with him or he tried to get with her....someone got rejected, and he ejected her.

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I don't know. That's kind of odd. Married woman moving back in with his friend rather than with her husband?

 

 

Maybe something was going on but the guilt made him force her out of his bed and house.

 

 

We're no getting the full story here to make a straight forward answer. I mean, you accused him for a month. Why? What happened that made you think that something was going on?

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She cheated. If she didn't there would of been zero reason for her to move back in with him once you had moved out. Move on, she is not trust worthy. The guy booting her out means nothing in terms of showing nothing happened. He booted her out after two months. Which means he probably used her as a piece of ass until he got tired of her and then kicked her out.

 

Even if she didn't cheat, the fact she moved back in with him shows her level of respect for you(hint, that level is zero).

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