conf Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 It's been 2 years since we have broken up. It was her decision to broke up. She said that she wanted to feel in love again and that if we have met each other later in our lives maybe we would be together. We were together from 16-22. We have been in nc for these years. She made some attempts to reach out to me (in birthdays) but i could not stand it and block her everywhere (mobile/facebook/...). Last night we met in a bar cause of common friends. She came to talk and we kept talking for two hours (Till we leave). Nothing serious. Maybe sometimes she was apologetic but not too obvious. (She said that i was right in some things). We left but we did not say something more (lets meet up again or something similar). Some friends asked me if we would try again. Does she want to try again? Is she scared of rejection due to blocking her from everywhere? Do i have to make a move to show her that the lines of communication are open again? Reading this forum i thought that if she wanted to try again she would be straight forward. Obviously it was not my decision to broke up. I believed that she was the girl of my dreams. So it hurt a lot. I am scared that it would be an emotionally fallback. I really loved her. I really wanted to be with her. But i think i have to protect myself Link to post Share on other sites
La.Primavera Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 If you want to know how she feels then ask. If she makes it clear she isn't interested then save yourself further heartbreak and go back to no contact. It sounds like you will regret it if you don't try. Better to find out quickly rather than delaying it and spend countless hours and days daydreaming about the possibility. If you find out you are wasting your time then you need to be firm with yourself and stay away for good. Like you said, you need to protect yourself. Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveiswar101 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Wow, 2 years is a long time. Plenty of water under the bridge. People change, things happen, I would say after all this time why not. Don't tip toe around the issue, give her a call and offer to hang out one evening. I'm sure then when just two of you it will be easier to see A. You still like her and judge if it's worth another go. B. She might just say no, but at least you know where you stand. Either way by posting on here your curious, I say give it a go.. Link to post Share on other sites
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