Bluehome88 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Hello, I'm just a guy who is in a long distance relationship with a girl in Korea. Yes, we are in very different time zone. I went to Korea on December and met her there. We went out for 3 weeks and I had to come back to Korea after. Now we are in Long distance relationship for 5 months now. I think we are getting to the stage where we have kind of nothing to talk about. She's not a talkative person and she's very dull when it comes to showing affection. I do the most affection and baby talking to my girlfriend. recently, she doesn't seem to enjoy talking to me although we do talk for like an hour or 20 mins at minimum a day. So, most of the time, I'm not sure what she's thinking and feel little be unloved. So problem started recently. I went to drink with my friends at bar. The mood was really good and happy cause everyone was enjoying gathering. There were two girls and me and other guy friend. A and B girls , a guy A to make easier to say. Girl A passed out from drinking and guy A went to bathroom that time. Me and Girl B are good friends. We were talking about something and I was trying to cheer her up. Things got little too friendly and we started to kiss. I just don't remember who kissed first but next thing I remember we were making out and touching each other. Guy A came back so we were off each other. I went home and everyone went to their own home. I passed out and next morning, we met each other like nothing happened. I'm not even sure what to do. I am tired of long distance relationship but I do love my girlfriend so much. I can't tell my girlfriend and I'm not even sure how to talk to my friend either. I just think that I should talk to my friend about it. Help me.. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Hi Bluehome, Welcome to the LS community. Do you like this "B friend"? Or you have no feelings for her at all? Link to post Share on other sites
courtneykay Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 You have to tell your girlfriend what you did. And from the way you talk about her, it doesn't seem like you see much of a future with this girl. Either way, this is something you need to come clean about. Link to post Share on other sites
La.Primavera Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 You claim to love her so much and yet you don't have a single nice thing to say about her or your relationship, and now you have cheated on her. Long distance relationships are difficult. There needs to be a very strong connection and commitment from both sides to make it work. From what you have indicated it isn't working for either of you. I think it is time to do the honorable thing and let her go. Link to post Share on other sites
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