Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 29, 2005 Author Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Fallen_Angel 4 months?! A year?! I want this to go away NOW!! Ah, patience is a virtue. I feel as though I'm beating myself up and losing hope because the ex hasn't made any attempt to contact me since I talked to him Sunday. But, why should I bother? So what if he doesn't come back?! It's HIS loss. I hope if I repeat this enough, I'll start to believe it... Read my tag lines. Start believing it. And why not get out there and start fishing again?! You never know! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 29, 2005 Author Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by beejsea2 My ex and I have been broken up for six months now...God time flies!! There are days that I'm fine and than I still have my moments of doom and gloom, which I really hate!! My therapist paraphrased it like I'm on a roller coaster...ups and downs, one day I'll get tired of the ride and get off... Six months ago I would never think I'd be here...but I'm getting tired of the ride and soon I know that I'll be getting off. My ex snuck out on me, stealing stereo equipment you name it...plus he owes me money but I don't care any more because he's going to have to remember how he he treated me. Hang in there...it will get better!! Ok, the fact that he snuck out on you, stole your equipment and money is enough to hate him. People, people: "When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!" My ex showed me that she was a hypocrite, that she took me for granted and that I wasn't important to her. And for nearly a year I wouldn't believe her. This guy showed you he was a jerk. Don't you deserve better?! Link to post Share on other sites
Fallen_Angel Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC And why not get out there and start fishing again?! You never know! LoL I wore knee-high boots to work today, and although obviously no one can see it, lust-inspiring underwear! Even if I don't feel 100% inside, I'll try to project an image of self-confidence. I think I said this in another post, so I may as well start repeating this again as well: every day gone by is a day closer to when I'll meet someone better. I know the same holds true for you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 29, 2005 Author Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Fallen_Angel LoL I wore knee-high boots to work today, and although obviously no one can see it, lust-inspiring underwear! Even if I don't feel 100% inside, I'll try to project an image of self-confidence. That's one way of doing it for sure. As a guy, I know every ounce of sweat I drop at the gym takes me a little closer towards getting the kind of body that makes women drool I think I said this in another post, so I may as well start repeating this again as well: every day gone by is a day closer to when I'll meet someone better. I know the same holds true for you!! Agreed, but to catch fish you have to toss a hook - with bait Link to post Share on other sites
beejsea2 Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 OC, Yes I deserve better than my ex and I'm moving on!! I think sometimes (I know) I saw my relationship through rose colored glasses. No one wants to think that their relationship is that crappy! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedInOC Posted April 29, 2005 Author Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by beejsea2 OC, Yes I deserve better than my ex and I'm moving on!! I think sometimes (I know) I saw my relationship through rose colored glasses. No one wants to think that their relationship is that crappy! I didn't want to believe it either. When reality set in (like when she said she was 100% confident in her decision to leave me even though she NEVER put 100% into the relationship) I really had to go back over everything she did to me and honestly, I was a stupid fool. I will never do that again. If someone wants me, EARN MY LOVE coz I am NOT giving it away easily anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by Fallen_Angel every day gone by is a day closer to when I'll meet someone better. heh, i'm putting this into my inspirational journal Link to post Share on other sites
HotCaliGirl Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 I saw my relationship through rose colored glasses. No one wants to think that their relationship is that crappy! It's easier to make excuses about the crap than to face it for what it is. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted April 29, 2005 Share Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by XNemesisX Yikes. So that happened to you too, huh? My ex and I broke up 6 months ago and the last time I talked to him was early April, telling me to call him on April 4th and made me swear and promise I would call. I call on that day and his phone was disconnected..yeah gotta think he did that intentionally to hurt my feelings. He moved back to Ohio and I have no way to reach him. Oh yeah..and about her stealing from you. My ex owes me a good $3000 if not more and he stole a lot of my stuff too. yep, went to work, called her at lunch, came home from work, and she was gone. So was all of her stuff, most of my stuff, and about $1000. I had to borrow money so I could eat that week, she cleaned me out. Then I found out she'd purposely not paid several of our bills for a few months so there would be more money to take. She left a message on the answering machine, and that was it. I thought I saw her in a store in a few years later, but I didn't look twice to check, I just left. When I look back on it, it pushed me from wanting her back, to the anger stage in about 2 hours. Stuff is stuff, it's not important. I look at it this way, it cost me $1000, and a bunch of junk I didn't need to figure out who she really was and get rid of her. As my friend Tim often says "Divorcing my wife was the best 2 million dollars I ever spent" Originally posted by Fallen_Angel every day gone by is a day closer to when I'll meet someone better. I like that. Link to post Share on other sites
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