Keke1 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 She's accused me of having sex with her 3x. This situation has my mind screwed up at work wondering why she put me in their mess and why my brother believes her. I've never touched this woman at all. They have had a terrible relationship from the start with domestic violence, lies and her accusing him of cheating. He's angry with me and called accusing me of telling a lie. How could I do that? We're brothers and you did this to me. I've done nothing at all and I feel like this will lead to violence between us. I know this is serious and don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 His is like a raving alcoholic....you need to cut him out of your life until he cleans up his act. Stop talking to him, block his number, and warn other family members......avoid him at all costs. If he starts giving you death threats, make sure you record them of keep all your messages, and get a restraining order. I know he is your brother, BUT you need to protect yourself and can no longer be involved. He is a hot mess. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Woah this is bad. What a bitch. Do you have a unique feature about your body, like birth mark, bad bad acne, scar, moles, that you can get your brother to quiz her to describe your body? Even get her to describe to him the size of your dick, whether you shave down there, have snail trail belly hair, chest hair, etc. He better get her to describe the exact situations it went down first so she can't weasel out with "it was dark I couldn't see". Good luck on getting him to see the truth. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Tho proving innocence would be the initial reaction, the implications would still be very grave. You have to remember people who are in a volatile relationship cannot be reasoned with, especially if there is a threat of violence to others....the OP can't risk getting involved for his own safety. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Keke1 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Share Posted June 10, 2015 Tho proving innocence would be the initial reaction, the implications would still be very grave. You have to remember people who are in a volatile relationship cannot be reasoned with, especially if there is a threat of violence to others....the OP can't risk getting involved for his own safety. Yea I don't feel I have to respond to this mess. I've already told him it's not true at all. I'm not that type of person. This type of stuff gets emotions high and gets ppl killed and this thing invited me into their mess by lying. It's disgusting 3 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Ya I agree they do feed into all that drama and adding others just adds fuel to the fire. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It's sad but you have will have no choice but to cut them out of your life. How is the rest of your family handling this? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Simply say this:you will set up a polygraph test both for you and this liar to take. The liar will probably balk at that idea. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
GoBlue Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 I am so sorry my friend - what a horrible situation. You cannot allow this "to come to violence" between you and your brother for many reasons. Do you have a counselor, mentor, or even a Pastor whom you can talk to about this? Have you considered a restraining order? I don't know what to tell you except to say that the truth usually always comes out. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Simply say this:you will set up a polygraph test both for you and this liar to take. The liar will probably balk at that idea. Her reaction to this offer would indeed be interesting to observe. No offense to you OP but that bitch and your brother sound like bad news. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Keke1 Posted June 10, 2015 Author Share Posted June 10, 2015 Thx guys and my family can't believe he believes her about me. He's in jail now for aggravated assault. Tried to beat the truth from a known liar. I honestly think this is what she wanted to happen. He fell for the garbage so he's going to swim in it. I'm not paying a single cent to get him out of jail. I don't condone beating women or women beating men. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted June 11, 2015 Share Posted June 11, 2015 Thx guys and my family can't believe he believes her about me. He's in jail now for aggravated assault. Tried to beat the truth from a known liar. I honestly think this is what she wanted to happen. He fell for the garbage so he's going to swim in it. I'm not paying a single cent to get him out of jail. I don't condone beating women or women beating men. Hold on are you saying he beat his girlfriend for the truth? If he believes her why is he beating her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Keke1 Posted June 11, 2015 Author Share Posted June 11, 2015 Hold on are you saying he beat his girlfriend for the truth? If he believes her why is he beating her? I'm not sure. I was at work and he called me. She was in the background crying. I'm telling him no I didn't and wouldn't do that. Guess he did it because in his head she did it. So he beat on her because she did it. He is a idiot because she played him. She has had him put in jail before for domestic violence but she keeps coming back. I think he was finally done with her and she says this mess. She drives up here for some reason 6hrs away from what I've been told now and this is what happened. She knew what he was going to do. She's probably going to bail him out. Rinse and repeat. Putting my name in this could cause consequences for me and my brother. So, I honestly have no sympathy for her. They both are clowns. Link to post Share on other sites
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