Sarah Posted May 21, 1999 Share Posted May 21, 1999 Hi, I was hoping someone would help, about 3 yrs ago I did cheat on my b/f & I was honest about it & I told him. He has not forgiven me for it but knows or atleast I thought he knew I would never put us through that again. We have been through alot, no need to go in detail but my question to you is how would you handle a friend of his Ex girlfriend said I messed arould with some guy one night when I did not at all. We talked in this bar & got drunk. Everyone knows I am with my partner & this guy is married & has kids & I have known him for yrs also I am not attracted to him. Well now my b/f does not believe me that nothing happned & believes this girl. I am so upset & hurt as I am being accused of something I did not do. I hung out with this girl & thought she was a friend & 4 months later she is saying I did this. Why did she not tell me I did this the next day? also why is she just telling my b/f now? He is so sure I did as I did cheat on him 3 yrs ago, but I told him that I did not & he is just being mean & spiteful saying I did. Any help? Link to post Share on other sites
vriend Posted May 31, 1999 Share Posted May 31, 1999 If I were your partner, I may still wish to punish you (emotionally) and make you jump through some hoops before I could relax again. If you volunteered information about an affair before being confronted and you were genuinely sorry, I think that buys you a lot of trust. If you are sincere and he is half decent, he may see it. Either way, I think you learned a lesson. good luck v Link to post Share on other sites
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