sportygirl89 Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 I went to a baseball game to blow off some steam with friends. The guy and I had a good conversation and even smiled at one point. As we got back I was about to open the door then he opened it for me. I haven't been actively looking for guys or dating. I've just been trying to enjoy the summer with friends. Is there potential with this guy ? I feel like most guys wouldn't open a door with someone who is just a friend (maybe family, but I've never seen it done for friends). Is there potential with this guy? Link to post Share on other sites
rester Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 Could go either way. I've opened car doors for friends, while I can't remember ever opening one for family except for my grandmother. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted June 12, 2015 Author Share Posted June 12, 2015 I figured I would just hangout with him in small group settings until he gives me some idea if he likes me or not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 "Courtesy: A form of polite behaviour, practised by civilised people when they can be bothered to find the time." He found the time. The secret is to watch at how he treats people in the Service Industry.... People who HAVE to 'open doors' for him. Courtesy is one thing; does he have consistently good manners? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 All you know at this point is he has manners. Some men will always open doors for women. Others will only do it for women they are dating. Based on the single incident you described, there is not enough info to determine which he is 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 Is there potential with this guy? its hard to predict how a relationship with said person would go, he only opened your door for christs sake 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sportygirl89 Posted June 12, 2015 Author Share Posted June 12, 2015 its hard to predict how a relationship with said person would go, he only opened your door for christs sake Someone woke up on the grouchy side this morning. There were other girls in the car. He didn't do it for any of them. You missed the fact I said we had a great conversation at the ball game. But guys lack detail...smh 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 I went to a baseball game to blow off some steam with friends. The guy and I had a good conversation and even smiled at one point. As we got back I was about to open the door then he opened it for me. I haven't been actively looking for guys or dating. I've just been trying to enjoy the summer with friends. Is there potential with this guy ? I feel like most guys wouldn't open a door with someone who is just a friend (maybe family, but I've never seen it done for friends). Is there potential with this guy? Don't base opening a car door as an indicator that there is potential. Unless a guy asks you for your number, calls you for a proper date, he's just a guy who opened a car door for you. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 Someone woke up on the grouchy side this morning. There were other girls in the car. He didn't do it for any of them. You missed the fact I said we had a great conversation at the ball game. But guys lack detail...smh sorry...a good conversation would give one a head start. by all means, ask him out or give him signals. Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 I open or hold open doors for lots of girls, most of whom I wouldn't want to get into their panties. I also let girls pull out into the street in front of me when traffic is heavy & slow or stopped. I don't do that for most guys though, usually just older ones. I guess I'm both courteous & discriminatory. Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 I guess I have been hitting on men and women of all ages my whole life without knowing it! Link to post Share on other sites
Trishern Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 I noticed this about my H when I was dating him. He always opened and shut car doors for me and he still does, when we go out on dates. He's also done it for his mum in the past, but he doesn't do it as a rule for all women. Look out for other signs.....you could be in there Mrs. T Link to post Share on other sites
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