ConfusedInOC Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 LOL. I'll hook the big guy up. Let's go out to a few clubs, I'll be your "Hitch" mang Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC LOL. I'll hook the big guy up. Let's go out to a few clubs, I'll be your "Hitch" mang I need a "Hitch" in my life. Not doing so well on my own! If you fancy a trip to Canada - let me know Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords I need a "Hitch" in my life. Not doing so well on my own! If you fancy a trip to Canada - let me know Aw man, we need the women on here telling men how to be charming and approach them Merin, class is in session, care to give lesson #1? Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Aw man, we need the women on here telling men how to be charming and approach them Merin, class is in session, care to give lesson #1? (Aw man??) I AM a woman And I need a Hitch Maybe I need to know how to be approachable? Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords (Aw man??) I AM a woman And I need a Hitch Maybe I need to know how to be approachable? Well for me, if you're smiling at me or making lots of eye contact, that's all I need.... Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted May 1, 2005 Share Posted May 1, 2005 Hmm - that is a tough one - cause when I am really interested in a guy, I get shy. I can look, smile, laugh and flirt with someone who doesn't matter ...... but if I like you, I get quiet, reserved etc. I may have to work on that! Link to post Share on other sites
Author BigB Posted May 1, 2005 Author Share Posted May 1, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords Hmm - that is a tough one - cause when I am really interested in a guy, I get shy. I can look, smile, laugh and flirt with someone who doesn't matter ...... but if I like you, I get quiet, reserved etc. I may have to work on that! I do the same thing.. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords Hmm - that is a tough one - cause when I am really interested in a guy, I get shy. I can look, smile, laugh and flirt with someone who doesn't matter ...... but if I like you, I get quiet, reserved etc. I may have to work on that! Then act like the person you like doesn't matter Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 I suggest that you guys break the ice of your shyness by doing some crazy things that you'd never do normally (just don't hurt anyone in any way). After that talking to the girl you like will seem like drinking a glass of water. Try something like a candid camera, excluding the camera. Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC Then act like the person you like doesn't matter That is a tough one Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 2, 2005 Share Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords That is a tough one I know it sounds odd, but to change habits you have to change your attitude. And that starts with telling yourself (internally) that "he doesn't matter." Link to post Share on other sites
tootheNthdegree Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 Dear Mr. BigB, First off, this is my first time on this site, and first time posting. So, you'll hopefully understand if I'm not good at this. I read your post subject: "Why am I perpetually single". First I'd like for you to understand that you may be going through a dry spell (decade), whatever....the fact is your young. You won't be single forever. And, for those who tell you to do this or that...the truth is...just be yourself. Okay, you smoke.....okay, you clearly are a softy, who has a gentleness to him...maybe you need to lose weight.....my point. My point is, your match will not be turned off, or uninterested by your list, but rather, see something in you, she's looking for. Just be yourself. When we try to be someone other than that, and if the motives are just to get a date and have a romp around the hay, that's one thing. But, if you're interested in someone with more substance, you can't pretend to be something you're not. Eventually, the BigB will explode out of you. I'm a few/several years older than you, so don't be so easy to give up, or lose hope. You have a lid to your pot, she's out there. And, when you least expect it...BLAM....their she'll be. Don't give up hope. Focus on yourself. Do things that interest you. But above all else, remain true to yourself. It's a vital ingredient that healthly long time, lasting relationships are built on. Good luck to you....Hold your head up high. Think about yourself and what your needs are, and try and enjoy the single life. I have no doubt that one day, you'll look back on this time and may wish you would have savored it more. Best Wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BigB Posted May 21, 2005 Author Share Posted May 21, 2005 tootheNthdegree, thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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