flaky girl, should I write her off?

[trackersmacker]

ok, so I met this very good looking girl briefly last summer. she was actually casually dating my friend at the time. that didn't work out last fall and she moved away for a job. we happened to start talking online, she actually got in touch first. I had broken up with my long time gf as well and wasn't really ready to date anyone. so I didn't give it much thought. we chatted quite often during those few months. she came back to my country briefly at one point and I asked her our then. but since I still wasn't completely over my ex at the time (ex was still pulling me back with her nonsense even though she had a new bf), then I didn't really escalate anything on that date.

 

fast forward to this spring. she came back from that job and we wen't out again, and ended up at my place and had sex. that happened once more a week or so later. fast forward a week or so more and she seemed less interested and seemed to pull back and not initiate contact any more. So I pulled back as well and then after seeing her at the party two weeks later, she was still all over me but didn't come home with me. I still are seeing her almost every weekend as we move around in the same parties and our town is not so big. she is touchy feely on the weekends but is not any more initiating contact or asking me anywhere or getting in touch much herself. I asked her once to come over after a party and she turned me down. we haven't even kissed for a while now. but she still seems to want to hang out with me when she sees me and is still touchy feely, but also don't seem to want to really give into it any more. is she seeing me as a friend now suddenly as I've probably acted a bit beta along the way or just stringing me long as an option? I've been hanging out with her but usually there's other people too as the parties, so lest with just the two of us lately. I asked he out once more and she said yes, but we didn't agree on definite date yet. Should I just write her off, if she doesn't get in touch any more about getting together. Is she just going along with things?

 

I know I've done more things wrong with her than right but should I just write her off of being flaky and move on, circulate further. She must have tons of options as she is young and very good looking. I'm handsome and successful too, am a bit older though. The only bad thing is that my bad breakup (now almost a year ago) has made me a bit needy sometimes or hurtful to rejection. Been working to get over those personality traits but sometimes they still come back.

Edited June 14, 2015 by trackersmacker